Black or White

Movie review by
Jeffrey M. Anderson, Common Sense Media
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Flawed but thoughtful, touching look at race and family.
  • PG-13
  • 2015
  • 121 minutes

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 7 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Complex themes/messages related to racial issues and relations. Tolerance is promoted, and the idea of looking beyond skin color is a main theme. Family is also cherished.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Most of the characters (and their views) are flawed, albeit in ways that make them seem more realistic/human. A white character gives a speech about how, if his first impression of a person is skin color, then his second or third impression about that person is the one that counts. There are strong, positive African-American characters, but the movie is mainly about the journey of the main white character.


A rough fight scene. A man draws a knife. A man is hit with a blunt object. A man falls into a pool cover and nearly drowns. General tension, shouting, and arguing throughout.


A secondary character is affectionate with his girlfriend. The main character has flashbacks about his late, beloved wife.


One major use of "motherf----r." Occasional use of other strong words, including the "N" word.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

The main character is a heavy drinker, possibly an alcoholic. He drinks a specific brand of whisky and is frequently drunk or hung over. A secondary character is a struggling drug addict. He's shown smoking crack in one brief shot.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Black or White is a drama about race and family -- and also alcohol and drugs. It's flawed but thoughtful, and it tackles some extremely complex, difficult issues, making it a jumping-off point for discussions about tolerance, racial relations, and more. The main character is a very heavy drinker (to the point of alcoholism), and a supporting character is a drug addict (he's briefly shown smoking crack). Language isn't very frequent but includes one use of "motherf----r," as well as the "N" word. Arguing and tension is strong throughout, culminating in a rough fight scene that involves a knife and a blunt object. A character also falls into a pool cover and nearly drowns. Sex isn't really an issue; the main character has flashbacks to his late, beloved wife, and a secondary character is seen being affectionate with a younger girlfriend.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bypeter-veugelaers February 7, 2020

Surprisingly, contains offensive language

Contains a blasphemy , which I didn't expect. A down-point. As the film had potential. I would have watched the whole film, but the one profanity put me of... Continue reading
Adult Written byAltTea February 23, 2016

Amazing movie!

This movie deals with many harsh themes: dealing with death, drugs, and absent parents. An amazing movie that deals with the such of racial discrimination, the... Continue reading
Kid, 8 years old February 2, 2015

Cliche but heart warming, wonderful drama deals with drugs and alcohol.

My rating:R for alcohol and drug use throughout, mature thematic material, brief bloody images, some violence, and disturbing content.
Teen, 17 years old Written bysuesybunnie May 6, 2017

If your parents let you watch curse word movies

This movie is not inappropriate. There is a lot of drinking and smoking. But this is fine for me. My whole family loves this movie.

What's the story?

After the death of his beloved wife, Elliot (Kevin Costner), finds himself raising his mixed-race granddaughter, Eloise (Jillian Estell), by himself. Eloise's mother died in childbirth, and her father (Andre Holland), a drug addict, is out of the picture, so Elliot has been there for her since day one. Eloise's paternal grandmother, Rowena (Octavia Spencer), lives in South Central L.A. and would like to help raise the girl in her full, busy house. When Elliot starts drinking heavily, Rowena sees her chance and sues for full custody of the child. Elliot finds himself walking a complex path, navigating a gray area between race and prejudice, drugs and alcohol, and his love for his granddaughter.

Is it any good?

Actor-turned-writer/director Mike Binder (The Upside of Anger, Reign Over Me) tackles some very tough material here in a very thoughtful way, even if it falls a little off-balance. None of these characters is perfect. Elliot gives a courtroom speech about how he does notice the skin color of a person, but only as his first thought. He argues that if his second thought is about the person under the skin, then that's the thought that counts.

Rowena's house is warm and filled with music, and Elliot walks through it comfortably, and with no racial bias. Rowena herself is shown to be smart and caring, but her all-or-nothing approach with regard to Eloise seems illogical (why not try for joint custody?). The character of Eloise's drug-addicted father is thin, and the movie's/characters' double-standard treatment of alcohol and drugs is barely acknowledged. But the movie gets big points for trying -- and for adding to an important social discussion. And the performances are excellent.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Black or White's violent fight scene. How does it bring all the movie's themes to a climax? Does it seem overdone? Too shocking? Not shocking enough?

  • How does Elliot view the issue of race? How do other characters view it? Do you think the movie considers any particular character's view to be the "right" one? How can you tell? And how do you know which ones are wrong?

  • How does the movie portray Elliot's drinking? Is he an addict, or is he using alcohol to deal with his grief and rage? Are there realistic consequences for his drinking?

  • Do any of these characters seem like stereotypes? Are they intended to be role models? How can you tell? What makes flawed characters sympathetic?

  • How does the movie deal with the issue of racism overall? Is it positive? Negative? Something in the middle? Does it acknowledge the complexities of the issue?

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