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Black or White

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Flawed but thoughtful, touching look at race and family.
  • Review Date: December 2, 2014
  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Drama
  • Release Year: 2015
  • Running Time: 121 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

Complex themes/messages related to racial issues and relations. Tolerance is promoted, and the idea of looking beyond skin color is a main theme. Family is also cherished.

Positive role models

Most of the characters (and their views) are flawed, albeit in ways that make them seem more realistic/human. A white character gives a speech about how, if his first impression of a person is skin color, then his second or third impression about that person is the one that counts. There are strong, positive African-American characters, but the movie is mainly about the journey of the main white character.

Violence

A rough fight scene. A man draws a knife. A man is hit with a blunt object. A man falls into a pool cover and nearly drowns. General tension, shouting, and arguing throughout.

Sex

A secondary character is affectionate with his girlfriend. The main character has flashbacks about his late, beloved wife.

Language

One major use of "motherf----r." Occasional use of other strong words, including the "N" word.

Consumerism
Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking

The main character is a heavy drinker, possibly an alcoholic. He drinks a specific brand of whisky and is frequently drunk or hung over. A secondary character is a struggling drug addict. He's shown smoking crack in one brief shot.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Black or White is a drama about race and family -- and also alcohol and drugs. It's flawed but thoughtful, and it tackles some extremely complex, difficult issues, making it a jumping-off point for discussions about tolerance, racial relations, and more. The main character is a very heavy drinker (to the point of alcoholism), and a supporting character is a drug addict (he's briefly shown smoking crack). Language isn't very frequent but includes one use of "motherf----r," as well as the "N" word. Arguing and tension is strong throughout, culminating in a rough fight scene that involves a knife and a blunt object. A character also falls into a pool cover and nearly drowns. Sex isn't really an issue; the main character has flashbacks to his late, beloved wife, and a secondary character is seen being affectionate with a younger girlfriend.

What's the story?

After the death of his beloved wife, Elliot (Kevin Costner), finds himself raising his mixed-race granddaughter, Eloise (Jillian Estell), by himself. Eloise's mother died in childbirth, and her father (Andre Holland), a drug addict, is out of the picture, so Elliot has been there for her since day one. Eloise's paternal grandmother, Rowena (Octavia Spencer), lives in South Central L.A. and would like to help raise the girl in her full, busy house. When Elliot starts drinking heavily, Rowena sees her chance and sues for full custody of the child. Elliot finds himself walking a complex path, navigating a gray area between race and prejudice, drugs and alcohol, and his love for his granddaughter.

Is it any good?

QUALITY

Actor-turned-writer/director Mike Binder (The Upside of Anger, Reign Over Me) tackles some very tough material here in a very thoughtful way, even if it falls a little off-balance. None of these characters is perfect. Elliot gives a courtroom speech about how he does notice the skin color of a person, but only as his first thought. He argues that if his second thought is about the person under the skin, then that's the thought that counts.

Rowena's house is warm and filled with music, and Elliot walks through it comfortably, and with no racial bias. Rowena herself is shown to be smart and caring, but her all-or-nothing approach with regard to Eloise seems illogical (why not try for joint custody?). The character of Eloise's drug-addicted father is thin, and the movie's/characters' double-standard treatment of alcohol and drugs is barely acknowledged. But the movie gets big points for trying -- and for adding to an important social discussion. And the performances are excellent.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about Black or White's violent fight scene. How does it bring all the movie's themes to a climax? Does it seem overdone? Too shocking? Not shocking enough?

  • How does Elliot view the issue of race? How do other characters view it? Do you think the movie considers any particular character's view to be the "right" one? How can you tell? And how do you know which ones are wrong?

  • How does the movie portray Elliot's drinking? Is he an addict, or is he using alcohol to deal with his grief and rage? Are there realistic consequences for his drinking?

  • Do any of these characters seem like stereotypes? Are they intended to be role models? How can you tell? What makes flawed characters sympathetic?

  • How does the movie deal with the issue of racism overall? Is it positive? Negative? Something in the middle? Does it acknowledge the complexities of the issue?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:January 30, 2015
DVD release date:May 5, 2015
Cast:Kevin Costner, Octavia Spencer, Jillian Estell
Director:Mike Binder
Studio:Relativity Media
Genre:Drama
Run time:121 minutes
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:brief strong language, thematic material involving drug use and drinking, and for a fight

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Kid, 8 years old February 2, 2015

Cliche but heart warming, wonderful drama deals with drugs and alcohol.

My rating:R for alcohol and drug use throughout, mature thematic material, brief bloody images, some violence, and disturbing content.
Teen, 13 years old Written byNeon Blue 2021 February 5, 2015
Teen, 13 years old Written bygmvyoshi February 12, 2015

Kevin Costner Stars in This Amazing Film.

"Black or White" is a great film fit for teens, starring Kevin Costner and Octavia Spencer, both great actors. Sex-there is no sexual content, except some sexual innuendo; a brief scene where Elliot says something to Duvon about Duvon's rectocele, which is non-existent because only girls have rectoceles (that's not mentioned in the movie, though). Reggie's sister is a lesbian and is shown with her partner in multiple scenes. At court, Elliot mentions that he can't help it that, when he looks at woman, the first thing he notices is her breasts. He says this to compare that the first time he looks at a black person, the first thing he notices is that they are black. Language-infrequent, strong language includes: hell, go to hell, damn, goddamn, Jesus!, s--t, bulls--t, a--, a--hole, son of a b--ch, n----r, and (one use of) motherf--ker. Violence-there are two fights, both between Elliot and Reggie. The first fight briefly shows them punching each other, no blood. The second is more graphic. Reggie is high on crack and Elliot is drunk on whisky. They beat each other up and wrestle. At one point, Elliot's forehead starts to bleed badly. He is so hurt, it makes him dizzy and wobbly when he walks. Reggie goes into the house to get Eloise, leaving Elliot. Meanwhile, Elliot tries to get up, but ends up falling into the pool with a solar cover on it. He sinks into it and almost drowns, but, eventually, Reggie saves him. Drinking/Drugs/Smoking-in most, if not every, scene, Elliot is shown drinking some type of alcohol, mostly whisky. He is a dangerous alcoholic and its affecting Eloise's life. Reggie is addicted to smoking crack. In one scene, before the fight, as mentioned before, Reggie is shown smoking crack. In another scene, Reggie shown smoking crack and is caught by his family, who he told he was sober. He is also briefly shown smoking a cigarette. Great movie recommended for teens and adults.
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Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking

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