Parents' Guide to Brad's Status

Movie R 2017 101 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Quirky dramedy has great acting, plus language, drinking.

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age 16+

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What's the Story?

In BRAD'S STATUS, Ben Stiller plays Brad Sloan of Sacramento, a 47-year-old nonprofit director who can't help but compare himself unfavorably to his more financially successful friends from college. Despite having a loving wife, Melanie (Jenna Fischer), and talented son, Troy (Austin Abrams), Brad constantly struggles with feelings of inadequacy because he doesn't own a private jet like hedge-fund manager Jason (Luke Wilson), hasn't retired to Hawaii like Billy (Jemaine Clement), and isn't a rich filmmaker like Nick (Mike White) or a famous political pundit like Craig (Michael Sheen). Brad's envy and guilt are heightened when he and Troy, a high school senior, head East to tour colleges in the Boston area, including Harvard and Brad's alma mater, Tufts. When Brad needs a favor from one of his old friends, he nearly becomes unhinged with a sense that everyone else in their group is exceptional, while he's mediocre.

Is It Any Good?

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Writer-director White specializes in over-analytical, self-loathing souls who have trouble dealing with their lives, and Stiller does a brilliant job playing the chronically unsatisfied Brad. It's hard to humanize someone unlikable, but Stiller manages the feat with a subtle performance that doesn't turn Brad into a complete sad sack. Most viewers will be able to relate to someone who feels a little bit of envy or even preoccupation with wondering whether they made the right choices, but Stiller's ability to reveal the depth of Brad's neuroses without turning him into a caricature is amazing. Brad's constant navel-gazing goes from amusing to eye-rolling to cringe-worthy, then back to amusing -- and so on.

Also impressive is the nuanced performance by Abrams, who plays Brad's son, Troy. Troy also has his share of stressors (what over-achieving high school senior isn't stressed?), but he isn't suffering from a "nervous meltdown" like his moody father. A talented young actor known for his work on The Walking Dead and Paper Towns, Abrams has a great scene in which Troy gives a wonderful little speech about his love for his father. There are also standout supporting performances from Sheen, who plays a breezily egotistical power broker, and Shazi Raja as an idealistic Harvard junior named Ananya. She, at 21, says exactly what most viewers are probably thinking about Brad -- that he's "just fine" and that he "has enough" but just can't see it because he's too fixated on what he doesn't possess.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Brad's Status' messages about gratitude. Instead of feeling grateful, Brad is envious. How do jealousy and envy affect him?

  • Ananya says that Brad is stuck in a place of privilege and actually has "enough" but doesn't realize it. Do you agree with her? Why do you think Brad feels the way he does?

  • Do you think that financial riches and fame are the best or only measures of success? What are other ways to feel "rich" or fulfilled?

  • What do you think of Brad and Troy's relationship? Is it an example of a strong father-son connection?

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