
Family movie night? There's an app for that
Download our new mobile app on iOS and Android.
Burn Your Maps
By Tara McNamara,
Common Sense Media Reviewer
Common Sense Media Reviewers
Poignant, quirky family dramedy explores grief.

A Lot or a Little?
What you will—and won't—find in this movie.
Where to Watch
Videos and Photos
Burn Your Maps
Community Reviews
Based on 1 parent review
All good!
What's the Story?
In BURN YOUR MAPS, while his parents (Vera Farmiga, Marton Csokas) are still navigating the emotional despair of a major loss, 8-year-old Wes (Jacob Tremblay) comes to believe that, in his heart and soul, he's a Mongolian shepherd. With the support of his adult friend Ismail (Suraj Sharma), an Indian immigrant, Wes embraces his newly realized identity despite pressure to conform.
Is It Any Good?
Watching this film is a discovery; it's like stumbling on an unusual rock, putting it in your pocket, and, when you pull it out, realizing it's actually a flawless diamond. Burn Your Maps' concept is definitely quirky: A second-grader thinks he's a Mongolian goat herder. (Whaaaaat?) But that unique plot element is just the first domino in an unexpected spilling of wonder (as in, "I wonder where this film is going."). The story is pleasingly unpredictable, the dialogue is snappy, and the writing is tight. Every line gives you a pound of understanding, which you'll need, because the film drops viewers smack into the middle of this family's turmoil. And that's what's all the more miraculous: Writer-director Jordan Roberts doesn't hit you over the head with exposition; rather, it's a slow roll of information that unwinds. For instance, when her parents start bickering, Wes' teen sister emotionlessly utters a warning call, "You guys are about to start fighting" -- and the entire picture of what life has been like in that household is painted.
Nuances like that are executed by top-shelf acting from the entire cast -- you feel everything. As a mother who's trying to pull herself out of a mountain of grief, Farmiga gets the most opportunity to show her chops, but every player gives a riveting, informative, emotive performance. As a retired, trekking nun, Virginia Madsen pops in for just a couple of scenes and proves that much can be made with little. The cinematography is equally gorgeous, with "golden hour" shots illuminating Mongolia as if it were heaven itself. Will kids or teens find it as enthralling as adults will? Perhaps not. But as the last shot triumphs, grown-up viewers will sit in awe of this little gem.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about what the characters experienced in the time leading up to what's covered in the movie. What clues are we given to the family dynamic? In what ways did you see that the children were trying to protect their parents? Do you think that is a responsibility they should have to take on?
How is the Mongolian way of life different from the American one? How did Wes' curiosity lead him to be drawn to the Mongolian people? Why do you think Wes felt his true "home" was so far away from where he was born and grew up?
What do you think Burn Your Maps' message is? It feels like it's sending a message, but it's also left a little bit ambiguous -- why do you think that is? What do you think the title means?
How do Ismail and Wes demonstrate perseverance and teamwork? Is it still teamwork if people are working together but have different goals? On the other hand, Alise and Connor are taking steps to work together with the same goal of saving their marriage, but since they fight and disagree, is that still teamwork? Why or why not?
Did this movie make you think differently about "loss"?
Movie Details
- In theaters: June 21, 2019
- On DVD or streaming: December 17, 2019
- Cast: Jacob Tremblay , Vera Farmiga , Suraj Sharma
- Director: Jordan Roberts
- Inclusion Information: Female actors
- Studios: Vertical Entertainment , Cinelou
- Genre: Action/Adventure
- Character Strengths: Curiosity , Perseverance , Teamwork
- Run time: 102 minutes
- MPAA rating: PG-13
- MPAA explanation: thematic elements including some mature sexual material, and brief strong language
- Last updated: June 20, 2023
Inclusion information powered by
Did we miss something on diversity?
Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by suggesting a diversity update.
Suggest an Update
Where to Watch
Our Editors Recommend
Excellent Adventure Movies for Family Fun
Multicultural Books
Common Sense Media's unbiased ratings are created by expert reviewers and aren't influenced by the product's creators or by any of our funders, affiliates, or partners.
See how we rate