Burning Patience

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Burning Patience
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Burning Patience is a Chilean film about fictional events in the life of famed Chilean poet Pablo Neruda, who won the 1971 Nobel Prize for Literature. The story is based on a 1983 film of the same name by Chilean writer Antonio Skarmeta, who later wrote a novel based on the same fictional elements. The same basic plot was remade in 1994 under the title Il Postino and received numerous Academy Award nominations. Poetic metaphors abound, many of them references to sexual passion that will go over the heads of younger viewers, as will most of the rest of the movie. Two adults who are in love kiss and begin to take off their clothes, indicating they will have sex. A woman who became pregnant and was abandoned by her lover when she was 17 doesn't want the same thing to happen to her daughter. Language includes "boobs" and "nipples." Adults smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol. In Spanish with English subtitles.
What's the Story?
It's Chile, 1969, as BURNING PATIENCE begins on a rural island called Isla Negra. Mario declares he's giving up the family fishing business. A sensitive young man, he feels poetry welling up in him but it isn't released until he becomes the local postman whose main job is to deliver all the mail arriving for a new resident, the famed Chilean poet Pablo Neruda. The fictional plot derives from a novel and two earlier films, the most recent the 1994 Il Postino. Open-hearted Mario befriends Neruda and learns about metaphors, which Neruda uses frequently in sensual love poems. Mario announces to Neruda that he's in love and is compelled to write on his own. His great inspiration is the lovely local waitress Beatriz (Vivianne Dietz). They share an instant mutual admiration and chemistry as their slow courtship advances. Unfortunately, her mother, who gave birth at age 17 and was abandoned by the father, warns that the lust overwhelming her daughter will only cause trouble. She sends the girl away and creates a distance that elicits a passionate correspondence between the two. The influential Neruda goes off to campaign for socialist presidential candidate Salvador Allende. The backdrop is the struggle between workers in Chile and a government unresponsive to their needs. Mario is left to find a way into Beatriz's heart and her mother's confidence.
Is It Any Good?
Although the same story told in Il Postino garnered international acclaim and Oscar nominations back in 1994, this Burning Patience version is unlikely to prompt such tributes. This is a tepid meditation on the poetry of the Everyman, on a sweet working-class young man just learning about love. This may have far more resonance for Chileans, especially those who remember the volatile political times of the past.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about why Beatriz's mother doesn't want her daughter to associate with the postman. How do you think the mother's experiences affect how she guides her daughter?
Mario is romantic and passionate about poetry but also a bit naïve. How does the movie help us believe that he can be wise about love at the same time he doesn't know much about anything else?
The story introduces the idea that Beatriz is also a poet, as talented and ardent about it as Mario. What does this idea add to the movie?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: December 7, 2022
- Cast: Vivianne Dietz
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Romance
- Run time: 90 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: January 9, 2023
Our Editors Recommend
For kids who love romance
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