Butter

Butter
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What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Butter is a high school drama that centers around Marshall (Alex Kersting), an obese teen who feels that the only way to be seen is to film himself eating himself to death. The film deals frankly with suicidal ideation and other heavy topics, including attempted suicide, binge-eating and other disordered eating symptoms, and mental illness. Language is strong ("s--t," "bitch," and more), and there are scenes of underage drinking. The film focuses on the importance of accepting others and helping those who are in distress, as well as the importance of reaching out when you need help. Themes include communication, compassion, and empathy.
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What's the Story?
BUTTER tells the story of Marshall (Alex Kersting), a teen who has been obese for most of his life. He feels ostracized at home and has been bullied at school, which is where he was given the nickname "Butter." As a result, he feels the only way to end his suffering is to die by eating himself to death on camera. But his morbid idea soon becomes a way for him to earn popularity. Things come to a head as his love life, social life, and personal feelings about himself converge at a New Year's Eve party.
Is It Any Good?
This is a heartbreaking but important drama about mental health, obesity, and giving people in need proper support. In many ways, Butter isn't a movie for the faint of heart, especially when it comes to facing the turbulent emotions that many people with suicidal ideation have. But, actually it's because the film is challenging that everyone should watch it at least once. The film's goal is to make you feel more empathetic toward people who have tough mental health journeys and hopefully compel you to reach out to those in your life who might need a shoulder to lean on.
The cast excellently portrays the myriad of societal effects that can drain someone's mental health, with Kersting offering a moving portrayal of Marshall, who feels imprisoned by his body (and even more so by his friends and family, who seem to not fully understand his pain until it's nearly too late). His yearning to seem "normal" is something that most people will be able to relate to, because most of us are prone to worrying at some point that our life is worse or somehow more "abnormal" than everyone else's. What Butter wants viewers to come away with is the fact that we all have areas we need support with, and we can also be a support for others. But the only way we can address our own needs and those of others is to be open and to communicate. Indeed, the biggest lesson the characters come away with, especially Marshall, is that there's no shame in telling someone you need help. Through getting help, you can learn to love yourself more authentically.
Note: If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal ideation, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline online or by phone at 1-800-273-8255 (for the deaf and hard of hearing, contact 1-800-799-4889). Spanish speakers can call 1-888-628-9454.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about why Marshall felt poorly about himself. What made his self-esteem issues worse? Is his situation relatable?
Why do you think Marshall created his website? How does he feel about his popularity?
Which characters do you consider role models, and why?
What lessons did the characters learn after Marshall's suicide attempt? How does the movie promote compassion, communication, and empathy?
When is it important to talk about mental health, especially if you're worried about a friend or family member? What resources are available to help both kids and adults?
Movie Details
- In theaters: February 25, 2022
- On DVD or streaming: June 14, 2022
- Cast: Mira Sorvino, Mykelti Williamson, Ravi Patel, Brian Van Holt, Alex Kersting, McKaley Miller
- Director: Paul A. Kaufman
- Studio: Blue Fox Entertainment
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: High School
- Character Strengths: Communication, Compassion, Empathy
- Run time: 110 minutes
- MPAA rating: PG-13
- MPAA explanation: mature thematic content involving suicide, crude sexual material, language, and drinking - all involving teens
- Last updated: February 3, 2023
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