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Swearing, implied sex in nontraditional holiday movie.
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Christmas Eve in Miller's Point
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What's the Story?
In CHRISTMAS EVE IN MILLER'S POINT, Kathleen (Maria Dizzia); her husband, Lenny (Ben Shenkman); and their teen daughter, Emily (Matilda Fleming), are on their way to the annual family Christmas Eve gathering at Emily's grandmother's Long Island home. It's a big, noisy family with the usual grievances, as well as adoring hearts. Uncle Matthew (John Trischetti Jr.) tells his siblings that he's ready to put their mother (Mary Reistetter) in a home and sell the house, which doesn't go over well. Meanwhile, Kathleen and Emily are feuding about something, and, during the chaos, Emily and her cousin Michelle (Francesca Scorsese) decide to sneak out and meet up with some friends. On an impulse, Emily throws away the unopened gift that her mother gave her. But as the night wears on, she begins to regret that choice.
Is It Any Good?
Both strange and beautiful, this holiday-themed drama is noisy and quirky, bent on capturing moods more than plots, but its human poetry is surprisingly immersive and deeply touching. Christmas Eve in Miller's Point might be dismissed as a National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation-like slapstick romp based on promotional materials, but it's far from that. Rather, it feels like a nontraditional way of looking at tradition. Its funny moments are so sly and offbeat that you might not even realize they're funny until later. (Michael Cera, who also co-produced, plays a deadpan police officer with several of these sideways comical moments.) The plot elements related to selling the family house and teens sneaking out aren't used for any particular kind of storytelling; they're just things that happen, with no discernible outcome. Moreover, even though the Christmas décor is rich with warmth and nostalgia, very little of the movie has to do with the holiday, other than it being the reason this family has gathered.
What really happens is that we find ourselves observing the characters' small moments. The camera roams the house, Altman-esque, liable to go anywhere at any time and listening to everything. Maybe these moments have no introduction or conclusion, and maybe they occur almost unnoticed within a cacophony of characters talking over one another, but they're still recognizable and powerful. They contain hurt, joy, regret, confusion, and much more. Christmas Eve in Miller's Point won't be to everyone's taste—it's more like a thousand little poems than a satisfying story—but it offers a night to remember.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Christmas Eve in Miller's Point's depiction of sex. Is there consent? Trust? What values are suggested?
How are drinking, smoking, and drug use depicted? Are they glamorized? Are there realistic consequences? Why is that important?
Is it possible to enjoy a movie that doesn't have much of a linear story? Why, or why not?
How would you describe the relationship between mom Kathleen and her daughter, Emily? How does it compare to your own relationships?
Did you develop empathy for any of the characters? Which ones? Why do you think that happened?
Movie Details
- In theaters : November 8, 2024
- On DVD or streaming : December 3, 2024
- Cast : Matilda Fleming , Maria Dizzia , Michael Cera
- Director : Tyler Taormina
- Studio : IFC Films
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : Holidays
- Run time : 107 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : strong language, teen drinking, some suggestive material and smoking
- Last updated : September 18, 2025
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