Cici

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Cici
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Cici is a Turkish family drama in which every adult child in the family must look back on childhood and recognize the roles they each played in shared tragedies. Language includes "f--k," "s--t," "damn," "hell," "suck," ass," and "fart." Cruel treatment of children and retribution are part of the landscape. Kadir hoses down another boy of lesser standing in his family. The victim can't retaliate. Kadir's father punishes Kadir by doing the exact same thing to him. The father also films the humiliation, then forces the boy to stand outside in the chilly night in wet clothes. The boy gets sick as a result. Someone punishes a bad deed in a way that results in an unintended death. A woman slowly succumbs to dementia. A teen girl is attracted to the teen boy who moves into her home. They meet secretly at night, innocently, until the father announces that the new boy is to be treated as a brother, making their attraction feel like incest and ending their encounters. A man who is refused sex by his wife claims that she is forcing him to seek sex elsewhere. She tells him he is "insatiable." Teens and adults smoke cigarettes. Adults drink alcohol to drunkenness.
What's the Story?
In CICI, young Kadir is moody and has a mean streak. It doesn't help that his father, Bekir (Yilmaz Edogan), refers to him as "useless." When Bekir takes in a friend's orphaned nephew -- the grateful, polite, hardworking, and capable Cemil -- Kadir seems to think his place in the family hierarchy is threatened. Bekir catches him bullying the new boy and does to Kadir exactly what was done to Cemil. In a public humiliation, Bekir hoses Kadir until he's drenched. He films the ordeal on a video camera and then leaves Kadir to stand out in the cold night in his wet clothes. When the film moves to the present, in the pandemic-era Turkish countryside, Bakir is long dead and Kadir is a lonely middle-aged filmmaker, as insensitive, opportunistic, selfish, haughty, self-important, and dismissive as he was in younger days. He's making a film about this lingering incident and the tragic death of his father, but he takes the liberty of self-justification and casts his father, who was ham-handedly trying to mete out justice, as the story's villain, thereby absolving himself of his own villainy. Forced by interactions with the other family members damaged by those events -- his sister Saliha (Ayca Bingol) and her insightful daughter Naz (Sevval Balkan), his younger brother Yusuf (Fatih Artman), their aging mother Havva (Nur Surer), and even the ever-sweet grownup Cemil (Olgun Simsek) -- Kadir (Okan Yalabik) can no longer tell himself lies about his victimhood. He falls into drunkenness, depression, and an inability to finish his film. Bitterness and self-pity engulf Kadir while the others discuss selling the family house and confront other startling revelations. Many truths are painfully revealed and, as is often the case in life, much is learned but nothing is resolved.
Is It Any Good?
Most of the first 40 minutes of Cici are meandering and unnecessary, but once the meat of the story is introduced and clarified, it moves with deft intensity. From that point on, it is beautifully conceived and acted, especially by Nur Surer, who plays the mother from ages 40 all the way to around 80 with sublime poise and empathy. Although Kadir never really receives proper comeuppance, the movie sweeps the audience into its reality once the director finds the proper rhythm, pace, and focus. At this point, this near masterpiece embeds us amid the turmoil of familial love, misunderstanding, and pain.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how some family members prefer to make siblings and parents the villains in their lives rather than taking responsibility for their own actions.
Why do you think Kadir has trouble finishing his movie?
Why do you think the next generation is deeply affected by events of the distant past?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: October 27, 2022
- Cast: Fatih Artman, Sevval Balkan, Ayca Bingol, Okan Yalabik, Nur Surer
- Director: Berkun Oya
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Drama
- Run time: 151 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: November 7, 2022
Our Editors Recommend
For kids who love family tales
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