Parents' Guide to Come See Me in the Good Light

Movie NR 2025 104 minutes
Come See Me in the Good Light movie poster: Andrea Gibson and Megan Falley lie on the floor with their three dogs

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Christie Cronan By Christie Cronan , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Tender queer love docu has language, illness, mature themes.

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age 12+

Based on 3 parent reviews

What's the Story?

COME SEE ME IN THE GOOD LIGHT is a documentary that follows poet Andrea Gibson (Colorado's Poet Laureate) and their wife, Megan Falley, as they navigate Gibson's ovarian cancer diagnosis and subsequent treatment. An intimate love story reflecting on mortality, art, and identity, this film is about facing death without losing life's brightness. Ultimately, it's about being seen, loved, and remembered in the "good light" of acceptance, authentically and empathetically.

Is It Any Good?

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Parents say ( 3 ):
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A raw reminder of the fragility of life, this film is a rare window into tender love and the vulnerable expression of deep emotions when words fail, even for a poet laureate. Viewers watch, learn, and grow alongside Gibson and Falley in Come See Me in the Good Light as they come to peace with the inevitability of mortality and remember the importance of cherishing and being fully present for every second. It's the simple things, the little moments, the sparks of joy, the dark humor, the slowing down, and the daily choice to live every day as if it's your last. And while these themes aren't revolutionary, the poet's heart adds a new layer of emotional connection as Gibson and Falley open up about their relationship, along with personal struggles related to sexual identity, suicidal ideation, and body image. Their quiet, unapologetic self-reflection and poetry help turn a potentially uncomfortable topic into an opportunity to spotlight human empathy.

Close, intimate, and authentic, Come See Me in the Good Light is a poignant documentary that doesn't hold back from showcasing the rollercoaster of heartbreak and healing during a devastating journey through incurable illness. But it's in that very diagnosis that a new chapter of life begins for Gibson and Falley—and a legacy is given a voice. Every one of us will face death someday, so we can all learn a heartfelt thing or two about the art of living from this authentic, vulnerable film.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what they think the title—Come See Me in the Good Light—means. Why might it be important in the context of identity and illness? What does seeing someone in "the good light" mean in your own life?

  • Why do you think filmmakers decided to turn this story into a documentary? What impact might it have on viewers? How does it compare to other portrayals of queer people in the media?

  • Who is telling this story, and whose perspective do we mostly see: Andrea's, Megan's, or the filmmakers'? How does the film's point of view shape the way we understand illness, love, and identity?

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Come See Me in the Good Light movie poster: Andrea Gibson and Megan Falley lie on the floor with their three dogs

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