Parents' Guide to Courting Mom and Dad

Movie NR 2021 90 minutes
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Brian Costello By Brian Costello , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Kids try to stop their parents' divorce in faith-based tale.

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What's the Story?

In COURTING MOM AND DAD, Brent (Scott Baio) and Sarah (Kristy Swanson) are a married couple who've been separated for one year. Their children, Andrew, Izzy, and Ruby, are worried that a divorce is impending, as they'll soon be going to divorce court. The biggest reason for the marital discord is due to Brent's prioritizing of his career over his wife and kids. While visiting their Uncle Paul to talk about it, Paul suggests that they reach out to a lawyer friend of his. This lawyer, Donovan Marshall, is the proverbial flamboyant ambulance chaser seen on television commercials, and when he meets the kids, he decides to take on the case of trying to stop the divorce as a way to attract media attention and get some free publicity for his struggling practice. While Marshall does manage to postpone the divorce, Brent and Sarah continue to have problems, as Brent keeps putting his work in front of everything else. When Marshall drops the case, the kids try to pull a last-ditch effort to bring their parents back together, but when it seems that this is on the verge of failing, it's up to Marshall to put his priorities in the right place, represent the kids once more, and use his knowledge of the law for good.

Is It Any Good?

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Parents say ( 2 ):
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It's scary to consider what kind of takeaways some kids will get from watching this movie about a family whose parents are on the verge of getting a divorce. Courting Mom and Dad raises some hopes that could be problematic if the premise wasn't so ridiculous. While there's some talk about marriage being a part of "God's plan" and how prayer and faith can help rescue a marriage on the rocks, most of the movie centers on three precocious kids and an unscrupulous lawyer coming up with solutions, especially when the blissed-out, hippie marriage counselor's chakras are no help whatsoever. And it's not until the end before there's any suggestion that maybe divorce rooted in abuse and adultery might fall beyond the purview of what's suggested as a solution in this movie.

While religious families might enjoy this, as there's no questionable content except for brief scenes where characters drink, it's hard to imagine anyone else finding any value in this movie, in either its story or underlying message. The attempts at comedy, such as the dad being forced to wear a pink robe and slippers in public to meet a business contact, is nothing short of weird and excruciating. It's also easy to imagine those who have actually gone through the pain of divorce either as parents or kids finding this to be an insult to their intelligence and experience, as well as potentially hurtful. While there should be movies that honestly address the problem of divorce, in secular and faith-based movies, presenting it as some kind of sugar-coated family comedy with precociously-wholesome kids using their mischief to fix the relationship woes of their parents isn't a good place to start.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about faith-based movies such as Courting Mom and Dad. How does this movie use faith and spirituality to drive the messages behind the story?

  • What does this movie seem to suggest about divorce? Do you agree or disagree? Why?

  • How does the movie address ways of saving marriages that aren't faith-based, such as marriage counselors? Does this seem like an accurate representation to you, or does it seem like it's rooted in comedy?

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