
Cowboys
By Jeffrey M. Anderson,
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Touching father-son drama centers on gender identity.

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What's the Story?
In COWBOYS, Troy (Steve Zahn) appears to be camping in the Montana wilderness with his son, Joe (Sasha Knight), admiring the scenery. We soon learn in a flashback that Joe has, until recently, been Josephine. Touching scenes show Joe telling Troy about his true gender identity. Troy, in turn, tries to explain it to Joe's mother, Sally (Jillian Bell) -- but she thinks it's a phase brought on by Joe's idolization of Troy, and his "filling her head with cowboy stories." Troy and Sally's relationship is further tested by Troy's bipolar disorder and a stint in jail after he fights to defend Joe from a bully. When Troy finds his visitation time with Joe cut back -- and Sally refusing to accept who Joe really is -- he and Joe plan to escape into Canada, first via Troy's beat-up pickup and then via horse. Can father and son find happiness before the authorities close in?
Is It Any Good?
This lovely, big-hearted drama uses familiar cowboy-story elements to explore understanding, acceptance, and gender identity. While it doesn't take many risks, it's as comfortable as an old pair of boots. Written and directed by Anna Kerrigan, Cowboys uses the clichéd image of the outdoorsy "masculine man" -- with his boots, belt buckle, and shaggy beard -- as a kind of opposite here. Whatever stoic, unemotional picture those elements might conjure up is shattered when it's Troy, rather than Sally, who almost immediately understands what Joe needs. (It's important to note, though, that Sally isn't presented as a monster, but rather as someone who isn't able grasp the concept of gender fluidity.)
Cowboy accessories -- including clothes, toys, and books -- are sources of comfort for Joe, a hope for freedom to be who he really is. But images of the great, wide outdoors are blended with paranoia and Troy's increasingly manic behavior after he loses his medication. The traditional chase-through-the-wilderness story doesn't have much tension, but Cowboys seems more interested in compassion than suspense; reaching the physical destination is less important than matters of the heart. Best of all, it's great to see character actor Zahn in a rare lead role, giving everything he has in a great performance.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Cowboys explains what it means to be transgender. Is the subject treated with respect? Compassion? How do the different characters' reactions show the right and wrong way to respond to people who are transgender?
How did you feel about the movie's violence? How did it help tell the story? Do you think it was necessary?
How do the characters demonstrate courage and compassion? Why are those important character strengths?
What is bipolar disorder? Does the movie depict this accurately? With compassion?
How are drinking and smoking depicted? Are they glamorized? Are there consequences? Why does that matter?
Movie Details
- In theaters: February 12, 2021
- On DVD or streaming: February 12, 2021
- Cast: Steve Zahn , Jillian Bell , Sasha Knight
- Director: Anna Kerrigan
- Inclusion Information: Female actors, Transgender actors
- Studio: Samuel Goldwyn Films
- Genre: Drama
- Character Strengths: Compassion , Courage
- Run time: 83 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: December 31, 2022
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