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By S. Jhoanna Robledo
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Intense Ethiopian film makes case for girls'/women's rights.
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What's the Story?
While walking home from school, 14-year-old Hirut (Tizita Hagere) is kidnapped by a gang of men who carry her off to a remote cabin. One of the men beats and rapes her and then announces that he plans to make her his wife, part of a longstanding tradition in Ethiopia known as abduction-marriage. Terrified, Hirut flees, grabbing her captor's rifle on the way; when the men catch up to her, she shoots the primary assailant dead. That's just the start of DIFRET, which is based on a true story and executive produced by Angelina Jolie. The film also chronicles Hirut's nightmarish journey through Ethiopia's legal system -- and introduces viewers to Meaza (Meron Getnet), the courageous lawyer who challenges the local customs to defend her. It's in Amharic, the local language of Ethiopia, with English subtitles.
Is It Any Good?
This is a powerful, intense film about an important subject that it explores without flinching. Hirut's experience is horrific, made even more terrible by the knowledge that abduction-marriage is common in Ethiopia and that the film is based on fact. Hagere, the young star, is impressive as a scared teen who's forced to endure terrible treatment, first at the hands of her kidnappers, and then by the police and village elders, who seem to have little to no regard for the rights of a teenage girl. Getnet is just as compelling as Meaza, a female lawyer who refuses to back down in a country where everything seems to be rigged against women. Together, the two stars make Difret into a movie that's sometimes tough to watch but shouldn't be missed.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Difret's implied versus overt violence. Although not much of the attack on Hirut is shown on screen, how is the violent act suggested? Which has more of an impact -- what you see, or what you don't? Why do you think that is?
What is the film saying about the impact of some cultural traditions? Why is Hirut seen primarily as a killer by the people in her village? What do you think about the custom of marriage-by-abduction? Have you seen other films that show longstanding customs that are unfair to certain people?
How difficult was it for Meaza to defy local custom and demand justice for Hirut? Is she a role model?
How does Difret promote courage and perseverance? Why are these important character strengths?
Movie Details
- In theaters : October 23, 2015
- On DVD or streaming : February 3, 2016
- Cast : Meron Getnet , Tizita Hagere
- Director : Zeresenay Berhane Mehari
- Studio : Truth Aid Media
- Genre : Drama
- Character Strengths : Courage , Perseverance
- Run time : 99 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : February 15, 2023
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