Parents' Guide to Dinner in America

Movie NR 2022 106 minutes
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Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Drugs, swearing in edgy but lovable romcom.

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age 15+

Based on 2 parent reviews

age 14+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In DINNER IN AMERICA, punk rocker Simon (Kyle Gallner) checks out of an experimental drug test, having been shorted the money he was promised. He accompanies fellow test subject Beth (Hannah Marks) home for dinner, and, before too long, ends up making out with Beth's mom, Betty (Lea Thompson), and setting their house on fire. He goes on the run, and meek, naive pet shop clerk Patty (Emily Skeggs) helps him evade the cops. Patty is a fan of punk rock band Psyops, of which Simon is secretly the anonymous lead singer (he wears a ski mask on stage). She's written many letters to her "music boyfriend," which Simon carries in his bag. They start spending time together, with Simon helping her collect her last paycheck after losing her job and stand up to the people who've been bullying her. Then he helps her record a song, using her letters as lyrics, and everything changes. But Simon must still reckon with his criminal past.

Is It Any Good?

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On paper, this edgy indie romcom about folks on the fringes has been done before, but in practice, the humane performances (and especially a transfixing musical moment) make it something special. From the outset -- the first shot of Dinner in America is a drug-sick, drooling Simon glaring at the camera with watery eyes -- the characters keep viewers off-balance. Simon's every interaction is laced with rage, cruelty, and cynicism, but occasionally he lets flickers of caring show. Meanwhile, Patty is even more of a cipher, enduring excruciating family dinners (perhaps blissfully unaware of just what's so excruciating about them) before heading to her room to blast punk rock. In truth, it's not always easy to like these two -- or to figure out what makes them tick.

But as Dinner in America goes on through its strange, funny episodes, that's precisely what makes them so interesting. Like the characters in Harold & Maude and many other movies, they eventually form an undeniable bond, here crystallized when they record their song. Simon lays down the drums, guitar, and bass and then presses record while Patty shyly begins to sing a song called "Watermelon." What emerges is one of those resplendent movie moments that makes you want to hold your breath until it's over, for fear of breaking the spell. Something beautiful emerges right before our eyes. It registers on Simon's face; he drops all his defenses. He's been emotionally touched. And so have we.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Dinner in America's violence. What do you think made Simon react to things with such rage and destruction? Were there consequences for his actions?

  • How does the movie depict bullying behavior? How are the perpetrators handled? What are some other ways of dealing with those who bully?

  • How is sex depicted? Is there trust? Respect? Parents, talk to teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • How does the movie depict drinking, smoking, and drugs? Are they glamorized? Are there consequences?

  • What makes these characters likable? What didn't you like about them? Why?

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