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Don't Worry Darling
By Tara McNamara,
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Stylish Harry Styles thriller has erotic scenes, drinking.

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Really Excellent movie…NOT for teens or kids.
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What's the Story?
In DON'T WORRY DARLING, Alice (Florence Pugh) and Jack (Harry Styles) are a young married couple who are madly in love and living an idyllic life in a picturesque company town built in the desert. Like everyone who works at the Victory Project, Jack's work is top secret. But when Alice's friend Margaret (KiKi Layne) becomes disturbed by something she saw (or believes), Alice wonders whether life in Victory is truly as wonderful as it seems.
Is It Any Good?
Wistfully wonderful, Wilde's psychological thriller is mid-century marvelous -- so much so that it may work against its own purpose. Told from a female point of view, the film doesn't have a message so much as a driving question: What is the perfect life, and what would you sacrifice for it? When asked that, teens might have an instant reaction that's wrapped up in identity, independence, and a modern perspective. But Wilde's movie wraps up the patriarchal past inside a seductive package of pretty pencil dresses, poolside parties, and sisterly shopping sprees. Alice is enthusiastic about her life with Jack, and the wives of Victory embrace supporting their husbands through clean houses, delicious dinners, sexy morning goodbyes, and martinis after work. The allure of that lifestyle is necessary for the rest of the movie's plot to unwind, and while the idea of it isn't intact by the end, there may be more than a few younger viewers who are sold on the notion that being a housewife looks pretty great.
That aside, Don't Worry Darling is enthralling. Alice is a phenomenal character, and, as played by the talented Pugh, she has all the complexity of the female spirit. It doesn't seem coincidental that she shares her name with a famous literary character who's "curiouser and curiouser." When she sees a loose thread in the perfection of Victory, Alice just can't let it go. She knows she shouldn't pull on it, and she tries not to, knowing it may very well unravel everything she holds dear -- yet she must. Once she starts tugging, viewers fly into the spiral of confusion with her, and when her answers come, it's in the form of a shocker that will hold up in cinematic history. For parents focused on raising active, critical teen thinkers, this Alice is worth following into the rabbit hole.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about whether Don't Worry Darling is a feminist film. Why, or why not?
How did you feel about the "crazy" friend being Black, and the controlling wife being Asian? Does the movie's ending justify these problematic depictions of underrepresented communities? Why is positive representation important?
What do you think life was really like for women in the United States the 1950s and early '60s? How does that answer change depending on race and socioeconomic factors? How would you feel if you were expected to fall in line with the gender roles of the mid-20th century?
Why are secret societies a popular plot device in entertainment? What's the modern-day equivalent of a secret society, as pointed out by the film?
Movie Details
- In theaters: September 23, 2022
- On DVD or streaming: November 7, 2022
- Cast: Harry Styles , Florence Pugh , Chris Pine , Olivia Wilde
- Director: Olivia Wilde
- Inclusion Information: Female actors, Female writers
- Studio: Warner Bros.
- Genre: Thriller
- Character Strengths: Curiosity
- Run time: 122 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: sexuality, violent content and language
- Last updated: September 4, 2023
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