Drinking Buddies

Movie review by
S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media
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Lots of drinking in romantic indie dramedy.
  • R
  • 2013
  • 90 minutes

Parents say

age 17+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 15+
Based on 2 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Luke and Kate have a great friendship, but it's clear that they're both thinking about whether it should be more than that. This complicated question is made even more so by the fact that they're both involved with other people, and nobody wants to hurt anyone else.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Everyone in this film is conflicted by desire for one person even though they're involved with someone else. They try to be loyal and honest, but it's clear that sometimes this is quite a challenge.


Couples have intense discussions. A guy gets into a brief brawl over parking spaces.


Couples fool around and are soon after seen getting out of bed. A man and a woman flirt overtly, though it's never clear whether either of them will take it any further. A brief scene shows a naked woman running into a lake to go skinny dipping at night; her breasts and back are glimpsed momentarily.


Plenty of casual swearing, including "f--k," "s--t," "bitch," "p---y," "d--k," and more.


A few Apple products are visible, including iPhones and a Mac computer. An important scene features a U-Haul truck.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

The main characters work at a brewery and drink beer nearly constantly, at all hours of the day; they sometimes get pretty drunk. One man stands out for his preference for wine and scotch. A few scenes have people doing shots. One character smokes cigarettes.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Drinking Buddies centers on co-workers at a Chicago brewery who are wondering whether they should be more than "just friends," despite the fact that both are involved with other people. Unsurprisingly (considering the title), there's lots of drinking -- at work, after work, on weekends, at parties, and pretty much any other time -- frequently to the point of drunkenness. There's also plenty of swearing ("f--k," "s--t," and more), a glimpse of a naked woman before she runs into a lake to skinny dip, suggested sex, and some smoking.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byBestPicture1996 May 7, 2016

Extremely minimalist dramedy brings the realism

While I still have some big problems with this movie, it certainly a brought a level of freshness to me that I thought was all wrung out of the romcom genre...i... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byRub July 9, 2014

Depends on your kid

I liked this movie and was definitely able to handle the drinking and swearing. Younger people might find the movie boring because it focuses less on what the c... Continue reading
Teen, 17 years old Written byNikki Fletcher April 22, 2014
i bet 14 year olds will understand the plot and when an innapropriate part happens, they can close their eyes!

What's the story?

Kate (Olivia Wilde) and Luke (Jake Johnson), who work together at a Chicago brewery and hang out together after work, are clearly very compatible. There's a real spark, but they're both involved with other people (Ron Livingston and Anna Kendrick, respectively). Then, when the two couples spend a weekend together at a beach cabin, everyone starts to question their relationships -- and whether they're paired with the right person.

Is it any good?

The film can be maddeningly slack at times, but it's rewarding nonetheless. Ambiguity is often the kiss of death for a movie -- that is, if it's mindless and stylized. But in DRINKING BUDDIES, ambiguity isn't just a cinematic device to prevent a filmmaker from making a commitment to a storyline; it's the thread that binds the relationships that are explored here. Kate and Luke adore each other, but they're just friends. (Friends who snuggle, anyway.) But Luke loves his girlfriend, and Kate likes her boyfriend enough ... though she also likes flirting with other guys.

One minute we feel certain about who deserves to be together, but then an exchange or interaction takes the story somewhere else, much like the way life works out in real life. Drinking Buddies is a smart, savvy questioning of male-female friendships, the ties that bind, and the loose ends that prevent outright entanglements.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how the movie presents drinking. Do you think the characters drink too much? Does their behavior seem realistic/believable? Are there consequences for what they do?

  • Do you think Luke and Kate should get together? Why or why not? Does your answer to this question change during the course of the film?

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