Drive My Car

Drive My Car
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Drive My Car is a Japanese drama about storytelling, truth, and many other things; subtle and masterful, it's highly recommended for mature viewers. Expect fairly graphic sex scenes, that include thrusting and climaxing, but there's very little nudity (just a partial female bottom and a full male bottom). Characters kiss and have extramarital sex, and there's some sex-related dialogue. People die (a dead body is shown); one man threatens another in a bar, grabbing his shirt; and there are two minor car accidents, as well as dialogue about violent acts. Characters smoke cigarettes and drink socially in bars (whiskey). The movie is long (three hours) but is worth every second. For U.S. release, the English subtitles show dialogue in brackets whenever anyone is not speaking Japanese. Some dialogue is in English as well.
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It has brief nudity, not for younger than teenagers.
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Multi-layered and quiet with a BIG side of Chekhov
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What's the Story?
In DRIVE MY CAR, Yūsuke Kafuku (Hidetoshi Nishijima) is an actor and director who's married to screenwriter Oto (Reika Kirishima). One day, he catches her cheating with a young actor, Kōji Takatsuki (Masaki Okada), but says nothing. Not long after, she dies of a cerebral hemorrhage. Two years, later, Kafuku goes to Hiroshima to direct a production of Uncle Vanya, a play he recently performed in. Due to one of the theater's rules, Kafuku isn't allowed to drive himself, so he's assigned a driver, the young Misaki Watari (Tōko Miura). He objects, insisting that driving is part of his work routine, but Misaka's stoic nature and skill behind the wheel convince him. Over several weeks, rehearsals begin, and Kafuku's relationships with both the actor and the driver begin to change in unpredictable ways.
Is It Any Good?
A masterful, meditative achievement, this Japanese drama uses every bit of its three-hour running time to find subtle nuances and to sharply define characters by use of the empty spaces around them. Directed and co-written by Ryusuke Hamaguchi and based on a short story by Haruki Murakami (whose work also inspired Burning), Drive My Car frequently relies on things unspoken. For example, Kafuku decides not to say anything about his wife's infidelity, and she mentions, on the morning of her death, that she'd like to talk to him about something; the subject is never revealed. The tapes that Kafuku listens to in his car, a recording of Uncle Vanya read by Oto, with only Vanya's speaking parts left blank, are likewise rooted in silent spaces. And when Kafuku asks Misaki to show him her favorite part of Hiroshima, she begins by taking him to a garbage refinery, where the falling trash reminds her of snow.
But spoken stories also resonate, with the caveat that the words themselves are unimportant so long as the emotions behind them are true (juxtaposing the idea of meticulously learning lines for a play). The movie begins with a strange, sad, beautiful story, created by Oto during sex with her husband, that comes into play again later and changes. When, finally, characters do begin to reveal the truths of themselves, it feels like a great tumbling out, but even that is beautifully modulated by Hamaguchi. He never loses touch with the movie's tone or themes, even for a second. His visual schemes, especially the strange lines of the rehearsal room, mesh perfectly as well. Drive My Car is a movie that contains multitudes and is worth sitting through more than once -- and worth pondering for longer still.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Drive My Car's depiction of sex. What values are conveyed? What did sex mean to Oto? What did it mean to Kafuku?
How does storytelling fit into the movie's themes? What do stories reveal about the characters? How do you think the play Uncle Vanya fits in with the story?
Are alcohol and smoking glamorized here? Are consequences shown? Why does that matter?
What's notable about the city of Hiroshima in history? In the brief glimpses we get of the city, how is that history reflected?
Movie Details
- In theaters: November 24, 2021
- On DVD or streaming: March 2, 2022
- Cast: Hidetoshi Nishijima, Masaki Okada, Toko Miura
- Director: Ryusuke Hamaguchi
- Studio: Janus Films
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Cars and Trucks, Arts and Dance
- Run time: 179 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Awards: Academy Award, Golden Globe
- Last updated: October 8, 2022
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