Parents' Guide to Effie Gray

Movie PG-13 2015 108 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Slow-moving period film makes intriguing tale uninteresting.

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age 13+

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What's the Story?

EFFIE GRAY (Dakota Fanning) is excited to be wed to wealthy, successful writer John Ruskin (Greg Wise) -- but she quickly realizes her hopes are misplaced in this biopic based on a true story. Ruskin is cold and cruel and will barely look at her, much less show her any kind of affection, and his overprotective parents are equally opaque. But in Victorian England, women have few options, and while Effie eventually begins to fall in love with a young painter (Tom Sturridge), they both know that the social mores of the day mean they can never be together.

Is It Any Good?

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This drama is a slow and arduous watch. Effie Gray, the historical figure, is a real-life tragic character with a feel-good ending. (Spoiler alert: She eventually worked up the nerve to leave her spouse, with whom she lived with unhappily.) But Effie Gray, the film, starts with what could have been a classic love triangle tale but instead becomes an uninspired, laboriously told one. We feel for her -- it's difficult not to empathize when her husband is such an awful beast -- but we get so little insight into why he is the way he is that we stop caring why.

It doesn't help that this period drama looks perpetually dismal and dark. Though they perhaps echo the subject material, the drab, underlit interior shots and dreary exterior scenes -- especially during an extended sojourn in Scotland -- fail to make the heart quicken as it should. There's just no light in this movie, no joy. Fanning does a fine job of portraying a woman who's beaten down and then learns to stand up, and Emma Thompson lights up the screen in a small role as Effie's sole ally, but the two acresses aren't enough to make Effie Gray watchable.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Effie Gray portrays marriage. Do you think a union like Effie and Ruskin's could happen today? Why was he repelled by the idea of physical intimacy?

  • What options would a modern woman have in similar circumstances that weren't available in the mid-1800s? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

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