Parents' Guide to Ellie & Abbie (& Ellie's Dead Aunt)

Movie NR 2021 82 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Short, sweet Aussie coming-out romance has strong language.

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age 15+

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What's the Story?

ELLIE & ABBIE (& ELLIE'S DEAD AUNT) is Australian writer-director Monica Zanetti's coming-of-age drama about titular high school senior Ellie (Sophie Hawkshaw), who has a crush on her classmate and project partner Abbie (Zoe Terakes) and wants to ask her to the Year 12 formal dance. Just as Ellie is mustering the courage to approach Abbie, Ellie starts to see the ghost of her dead Aunt Tara (Julia Billington). Tara, who was a lesbian, claims that she's a "fairy godmother" who's been sent to guide Ellie into her life as a young gay woman. But complications arise when Ellie's single mother, Erica (Marta Dusseldorp), isn't immediately supportive. Ellie's early attempts to woo Abbie also go awry with funny missteps, and there's a disturbing realization about Aunt Tara's death. New Zealander actress Rachel House (Thor: Ragnarok) co-stars as Erica's best friend/Ellie's "Aunt Patty."

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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Kids say ( 1 ):

This Aussie coming-out story is a heartwarming teen and family dramedy. Hawkshaw is well cast as Ellie, who loves positive affirmations, her mother, school, and her effortlessly cool classmate, Abbie. And nonbinary actor Terakes (Nine Perfect Strangers) is fabulous as Abbie, who's free of artifice and drama. The scenes between Ellie and Abbie are both poignant and the movie's funniest. Zanetti definitely paints a realistic portrait of the difficulties of putting yourself out there and asking someone out for the first time.

The ghost angle is quirky and fun but also heartbreaking, because Ellie never knew her Aunt Tara, who died before she was born. Ellie and Tara's interactions are sweet, particularly as Tara keeps giving Ellie "dated" advice that somehow still resonates (like when she claims that Ellie can confirm whether Abbie is gay if Abbie knows any Australian Football League players, or when she suggests they discuss who's hotter, k.d. lang or Melissa Etheridge). The only thread that isn't quite satisfying as written is Ellie's relationship with her mom. They're supposed to be as close as best friends, but Ellie's mom acts selfishly in her response to her daughter coming out. It's eventually explained why Erica is triggered by her daughter's revelation, but for part of the movie, it does seem slightly too homophobic, given their strong relationship. Ultimately, this is a surprisingly tenderhearted story of coming out, falling in love, and reconciling with the past.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Ellie & Abbie (& Ellie's Dead Aunt) portrays teens. Are the characters and their decisions realistic? What about the consequences of those decisions?

  • What is the movie's ultimate message about sexual identity? Is the ending hopeful? Why do you think coming-out stories are important?

  • Discuss the parts of the movie that are flashbacks to the 1980s. Are Ellie's aunt's actions still relevant today? How so? How have things changed since then?

  • How does the movie demonstrate courage and integrity? Why are those important character strengths?

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