Parents' Guide to Emoticon

Movie NR 2014 80 minutes
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age 15+

Human connections trump technology in social-media drama.

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What's the Story?

Elena Gallenti (Livia De Paolis) is an anthropology graduate student writing her thesis on modern forms of communication and their effect on relationships in the digital age. Although she sometimes has difficulty communicating the "old fashioned" way, her Ph. D. advisor (Carol Kane) and her boyfriend's two teenage kids, Luke (Miles Chandler) and Amanda (Diane Guerrero), help her understand how essential meaningful human connections are when it comes to love and intimacy.

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Although EMOTICON's story line often feels like it's straying from examining "modern forms of communication," that's also the point of the movie. Director/star De Paolis' characters seek human connections to work through their problems when technology and social media can't provide the answer. It's easy to hide behind a screen, and the characters often do -- Elena claiming the connection is bad when her mother dismisses her problems, Jackie and Amanda passive aggressively fighting over Facebook, editing texts or tweets before pressing send -- but it isn't until they've opened up to someone else the "old fashioned" way that they begin to sort through their complex emotions.

Additionally, the use of showing scenes through various filters -- videos recorded on iPhones or played on Facebook and Skype video chats -- combined with Elena's request for Luke to "put down the camera and look at it without a filter" also remind us to be fully present in the moments we experience instead of looking for ways to share them on social media.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about modern forms of communication. What impact do you think they have on our relationships with others? Besides Facebook, texting, and video chatting, are there any other modern ways we keep in touch with others?

  • Elena believes that we use technology and social media as a way to simplify our emotions in order to share them with others. Do you agree with her?

  • Why do you think Jackie chose to write a mean status about Amanda on Facebook after their fight? What should she have done instead? What can you do to prevent cyberbullying from happening?

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