Parents' Guide to Eternity

Movie PG-13 2025 112 minutes
Eternity movie poster: Callum Turner and Miles Teller sit next to and look at Elizabeth Olsen on a bench, their images on repeat behind them

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Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Heavenly love-triangle romcom has lots of drinking.

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age 9+

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age 16+

Based on 4 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Having lived a full life, Joan (Elizabeth Olsen) passes away a week after the death of her cantankerous husband, Larry (Miles Teller). When she arrives in the great beyond, she's reunited with Larry ... but also with Luke (Callum Turner), her first husband, who died 67 years ago. Now Joan must decide how she'll spend eternity and with which husband: "Perfect" Luke, who's gorgeous, nice, and romantic, or Larry, whom she built a life and a family with and who loves her immensely but is a complainer and prone to bickering with her. The decision seems obvious to everyone but Joan, who doesn't want to leave either one alone, emotionally distraught for all time.

Is It Any Good?

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Parents say ( 1 ):
Kids say ( 4 ):

With its charming cast, clever concept, and hilarious dialogue, writer-director David Freyne's delightful film is the kind of romcom that viewers may feel like they've been waiting for forever. People tend to pronounce the romantic comedy genre dead every few years, but rest assured: With Eternity, it's officially alive and well. From Heaven Can Wait to Beetlejuice to Defending Your Life to City of Angels and beyond, movie lovers have always enjoyed exploring the idea of what happens after we die—almost as much as we love a good love story. Eternity offers a creative way to think about both; specifically, it asks, what if "'til death do us part" was an underestimation of marital vows? What if, as Titanic suggests, your heart will go on ... and on ... and on? And, by the way, what is love, anyway?

The situation that Joan finds herself in is the realization that there are at least two kinds of romantic love: the passionate "first love" and the consistent, committed, here-for-you-every-day love that sticks through arguments and annoyances. Certainly, both kinds of love can exist within one relationship, and the hope is that we can all find that, but, for Joan, it's clearly separated into two choices. What it might help teens understand is that, yes, there's something magical and intense about first love, and it can feel all-encompassing. But if it doesn't work out (and, as adults know, it often doesn't), give it time: There's likely another great love out there for you, one that will hopefully last a lifetime ... and perhaps then some.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Eternity portrays the afterlife. How does it compare to other movies or TV shows you've seen that suggest what purgatory or the afterlife is like?

  • What is a "love triangle," and why do you think it's a popular plot device for romantic comedies?

  • Is drinking glamorized or normalized in Eternity? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?

  • How do characters demonstrate the value of communication? Why is that an important character strength?

  • Have you ever been in a situation as tricky as Joan's? What can you do when you have to make a tough decision?

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