Parents' Guide to

Every Day

By Betsy Bozdech, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 13+

Book-based teen romance has messages of empathy, diversity.

Movie PG-13 2018 95 minutes
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Based on 5 parent reviews

Ms. Romantic
Ms. Romantic Adult
July 20, 2018
age 18+

Leaving a mark on emptiness

Its a movie that stirs up different emotion and it gives the word "change" a good and bad light. Change is for those people who are not afraid to risk and someone who is not afraid of future. Sometimes there are things we need to change in our life and that change will only be successful if we do it for ourselves and not for others. We live, we love everyday with a new chapter and in every chapter we meet thousands of people and we must live each day like its the last so to make these people remember us, leave a mark with every good change we do in our life. This movie just made me realize that life itself is a box of surprise...a surprise where we never know what happens next.

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Jacquelyn P.
Jacquelyn P. Parent
July 3, 2018
age 11+

Interesting concept

I saw this movie with my 11 year old daughter and we both enjoyed it very much. At many points she was actually laughing out loud. Several conversations were had about what it means to have a sense of self that transcends how you may look or appear to others. Also, we spent some time talking about how important it was for A to move on so that the person s/he was inhabiting (for lack of a better expression) could go forward with life and exert free will. Love, regardless of appearance or gender, was another topic. Ditching school had zero negative consequences- we talked about how unrealistic that was. She cheered when Rhiannon came to terms with her bad relationship with her boyfriend and said that she approved when Rhiannon reached out to try to connect with her father. Overall, the film was enjoyable and sparked some good conversations with my pre-teen..
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What's the Story?

In EVERY DAY, teenage Rhiannon (Amy Adams lookalike Angourie Rice) isn't quite sure what to make of it when her usually ultra cool, hard-to-read boyfriend, Justin (Justice Smith), suddenly wants nothing more than to spend a golden afternoon with her, singing along to cheesy music in the car, goofing off at the beach, and -- for once -- listening to her attentively. But the next day he's back to his normal self-centered ways, leaving her hurt and mystified. Things only get more complicated when Rhi starts seeing glimmers of "that" Justin in other teens she meets: a friendly boy at a party, a potential transfer student. Finally one of them tells her the truth: They are all "A," a mysterious, empathetic, gender-fluid personality that wakes up every day in a new host body, living that person's life until the clock strikes midnight, never knowing whose eyes they'll see through the next morning. A has always made a point of respecting each host's life and therefore making as few ripples as possible, but something about Rhiannon has broken through that reserve. Can A overcome Rhi's (understandable) skepticism and help her understand how special she truly is?

Is It Any Good?

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Based on David Levithan's best-selling YA novel, this teen romance is sweet and well-acted -- with strong messages of empathy and acceptance -- if perhaps not quite as deep as it could have been. Everything in Every Day just seems to go a bit too easily or smoothly: Rhi seems like a lovely person, but what is it that makes A fall for her quite so fast and so thoroughly? We don't get to know her well enough first to understand why (other than the fact that she's the main character) she stands out so far beyond all of the other teens A has spent time with. Later, Rhi buys A's story pretty quickly, all things considered. Perhaps these parts of the plot worked better on the page, when there was more access to characters' inner monologues. And then there's the ending, which -- while emotional -- also seems to work itself out pretty neatly.

Still, it's impossible to deny Rice's charm, especially in the scenes where she seeks out and recognizes A in different hosts. No matter what A happens to look like each day, Rhi is always thrilled to reconnect with the one person who really sees and hears her, and that enthusiasm is endearing. It also helps underline the movie's messages about the importance of empathy, diversity, and unconditional love. Leaving aside the fact that, in the end (spoiler alert!), Rhi winds up with someone who hardly pushes the envelope, her journey to self-appreciation and self-confidence includes spending time with teens in a wide range of races, sizes, and even sexual identities. She loves A in all of them, and A loves her. And that's what really matters.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Every Day's themes of empathy, compassion, and humility. Which characters best display these character strengths? Does that make them role models?

  • A tells Rhi that "not everyone's body aligns with their mind." What does that mean? What options do people have when they're in that situation? What is the movie saying about gender identity?

  • How does the movie touch on issues related to consent? Why does A think Rhi might have felt taken advantage of when A kissed her as Justin?

  • How does the film address mental illness? Is it portrayed realistically? Sympathetically? What does Rhi learn about her father over the course of the movie?

  • Do the teen characters face consequences for their behavior or choices in the film? Why does that matter?

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