Parents' Guide to Fantasy Life

Movie R 2026 91 minutes
Fantasy Life movie poster: Amanda Peet and Matthew Shear awkwardly laugh together on the couch

Common Sense Media Review

Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Disappointing dramedy about mental health has drinking, pot.

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age 8+

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What's the Story?

While trying to get on top of managing his OCD, recently fired law clerk Sam (Matthew Shear) is hired as a nanny for the children of movie star Dianne (Amanda Peet) and musician David (Alessandro Nivola). Over the course of a year, Sam and Dianne bond and become close friends—and while it's not the life he planned for, Sam may just be living his FANTASY LIFE.

Is It Any Good?

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It's a strong effort toward normalizing mental health disorders, but Matthew Shear's dramedy is likely to leave viewers feeling anxious. Shear's Sam in Fantasy Life can be described, in the kindest of terms, as a sad sack who's struggling to keep his life afloat. Viewers see his mumbling, bumbling lack of confidence and the self-loathing antisemitic slurs that circle his brain. It's hard to say that there's anything encouraging about his character, other than that he seems like a really nice guy. Would a viewer with OCD or anxiety feel that there's hope for them based on watching Sam's interactions with the other characters? Probably not. And while his movie star employer may add a touch of glamour to anxiety and depression, let's be honest: Depicting the mental fragility of a wealthy White actress isn't particularly unusual—or helpful. Perhaps Dianne shows the humanity behind the diva-style behavior of famous entertainers, but since she hasn't had to struggle anywhere else in her life, ever, even if her grandparents did, viewers are less likely to feel compassion for her and more likely to play a tiny violin.

That said, Peet's performance is excellent and deserves praise. Unfortunately, it's absorbed into a film that isn't so much entertaining as it is annoying. Shear hopes that viewers will laugh with the characters in their attempt to manage their mental health, but, instead, it can feel trying. All of that said, Shear still deserves a cheer for putting something into the world that spotlights underrepresented communities and pushes against stereotypical gender roles—even if the story itself doesn't satisfy.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how people with mood disorders are depicted in entertainment. How do you think Sam and Dianne compare? Do you think their challenges are portrayed realistically? Do you think Fantasy Life helps address stereotypes and stigmas surrounding mental health?

  • Which characters play into stereotypes, and which push against them? Why is positive representation important?

  • Is drinking or drug use glamorized here? Are there realistic consequences? Why does that matter?

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Fantasy Life movie poster: Amanda Peet and Matthew Shear awkwardly laugh together on the couch

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