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Far from Heaven

Sensitive, mature melodrama about sexuality in the 1950s.
  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Drama
  • Release Year: 2002
  • Running Time: 108 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

The movie's characters are complex, and they face serious dilemmas and complicated issues relating to marriage, sexuality, race, and social expectations. The 1950s' suburban setting is portrayed as rigid and quick to gossip and condemn, but ultimately the main characters are true to themselves and their feelings.


Tense scenes.


Characters discuss sex; heterosexual and homosexual couples kiss. Some suggested intimacy and discussion of adultery.


One "f--k" and occasional uses of phrases like "goddamn" and "oh God."

Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Social drinking; a character gets drunk. Some smoking (era-appropriate for the '50s setting).

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this Oscar-nominated melodrama deals with mature, complex issues, including prejudice, sexuality, and adultery. Characters make anti-Semitic and racist comments; there's also some drinking and smoking. One character gets drunk in an attempt to numb the pain he feels about not being true to himself.

What's the story?

The 1950s was a time of peace and plenty, but it was also a time of conformity. It was especially inconvenient to be female, gay, or black. In FAR FROM HEAVEN, characters struggle with all three. Cathy Whitaker's (Julianne Moore) life seems perfect. She lives in an immaculate, stylish suburban home with her husband and two perfect children. She spends her days caring for her family, organizing social events for her husband's company and for the community, and talking to her friends, whose lives all seem exactly like hers. Everyone knows the rules and the rules seem to work. But Cathy's husband Frank (Dennis Quaid) is struggling with his longing for other men and with the self-hatred it engenders. When he is picked up by the police, Cathy believes his story that it was a mistake. But then she decides to bring him dinner when he is working late one night and discovers him kissing another man. Frank goes to a doctor who is, well, frank about the likelihood of a "cure." And just as Frank needs an honest relationship, Cathy does, too. She begins to feel drawn to Raymond (Dennis Haysbert), her gardener, who is black.

Is it any good?


Though the point of view of the movie is sympathetic, it feels somewhat distant. Writer/director Todd Haynes sets his story not in the world of the 1950s but in the world of 1950s movies. It is inspired by the films of Douglas Sirk, whose specialty was stories of women suffering nobly in fabulous clothes. Far From Heaven is a tribute to Sirk's All that Heaven Allows, in which widow Jane Wyman loses her heart to gardener Rock Hudson. Like the character who inspired him, the gardener played by Rock Hudson, Raymond symbolizes the natural man in an artificial world, and Haysbert plays him with dignity, warmth, and a subtle magnetism that shows us how Cathy can feel safe enough to allow herself to be drawn to him.

Moore and Quaid, too, give performances of breathtaking sensitivity and courage. But it is not clear whether the movie is set in the 1950s as a way to show us what Sirk could only hint at about that era or whether it is an attempt to say something about our own. It is tempting to distance ourselves from the problems faced by the people in this movie. They have no context or vocabulary to talk about the disconnect between what they feel and what they are expected to feel. While Sirk's movies can still move me to tears, this movie did not. The meticulous re-creation of the movies of the era, down to the style of the credits and the music by the legendary Elmer Bernstein, feels more elegiac than immediate, more admirable than involving.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about why the story is set in the 1950s and about what's changed since then. Younger family members may want to know more about the older members' recollections of that era. Did Raymond and Frank make different choices when it came to what was best for their children? What do those children think about what's going on around them? How will filmmakers 50 years from now see today's movies and what will they pick to pay tribute to?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:November 8, 2002
DVD/Streaming release date:April 1, 2003
Cast:Dennis Haysbert, Dennis Quaid, Julianne Moore
Director:Todd Haynes
Studio:Focus Features
Run time:108 minutes
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:mature thematic elements, sexual content, brief violence and language

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Adult Written bystlduell April 9, 2008

Melodramatic, cliche

I found the movie touching and brilliant in its display of life in the 50s, but trying to tackle TWO major themes of homosexuality AND racism made it feel contrived and trivialized. It would have been a much better film if they had focused more on the relationships between Moore and her husband and gardener and not tried to make a social statement about racism and homosexuality. I would NOT want my 13 year old to see this film.
Teen, 15 years old Written bywho3697cares March 2, 2009
Startling and brillant. It so easily captures a woman who finds her seemingly perfect life being torn apart it's amazing.
Adult Written bytxakazt December 8, 2015

Far from heaven

Nostalgia, the good ol' days, when the USA gave everyone hell. When the buck stopped somewhere and you could still buy something with it. A time when movies were in black and white, and so was everything else.