Parents' Guide to First Cow

Movie PG-13 2020 122 minutes
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Jeffrey M. Anderson By Jeffrey M. Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Beautiful, slow-moving story of friendship and America.

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age 12+

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What's the Story?

In FIRST COW, a young woman and her dog discover two skeletons in the present-day Pacific Northwest woods. The story then flashes back to the early 1800s, where a gentle cook called "Cookie" (John Magaro) travels with a band of rough fur trappers. While hunting for food in the woods, Cookie finds a Chinese immigrant, King Lu (Orion Lee), who's on the run from angry Russians. Cookie decides to help, rather than exposing him. Later, in town, the two men meet again and become fast friends. They learn that the chief fur trader (Toby Jones) has obtained a cow, and Cookie thinks that if he had milk, he could make delicious biscuits. King Lu proposes that they steal some milk at night. They do, and Cookie's biscuits, called "oily cakes," are so good that the pair decide to sell them. They're a hit, and business is so brisk that the friends may soon have enough money to move on to somewhere else. But unfortunately, the chief has heard about the cakes ...

Is It Any Good?

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Director Kelly Reichardt approaches this historical material with her singular, gentle, observant style, putting an emphasis on pairs and on inequality. It's a period piece, but it's also quite relevant. Based on a novel and co-written by Jonathan Raymond (who also wrote or co-wrote most of Reichardt's earlier movies), First Cow seems to find its pace based on Cookie's gentle kindness (he even helps right a struggling salamander) and King Lu's soft-spokenness. Their domestic scenes together -- cleaning, chopping wood, and especially cooking -- have a quiet, lyrical, tactile quality, almost like poetry. The film's music, which is often diegetic (shown on screen), effectively adds to the mood.

But Reichardt also establishes menace and threat early on in First Cow, from the present-day prologue (featuring Alia Shawkat) to the thuggish trappers, a bar fight, and even bear-like settlers admiring Cookie's clean boots. This constant imbalance keeps the movie feeling tense throughout. But, of course, the real point is the way that Reichardt depicts the unraveling of the American dream, how the gulf between the haves and have nots is often insurmountable. Yet the movie -- which shares themes with Reichardt's earlier films Old Joy and Meek's Cutoff -- is still beautiful and satisfying, perhaps because of the way it constantly strives forward. It opens with a quote from poet William Blake: "The bird a nest, the spider a web, man friendship." As long as we connect and keep going, hope is still possible.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the violence in First Cow. How much is shown, and how much is implied? How did it affect you? What's the impact of media violence on kids?

  • What does the movie have to say about friendship? How was friendship different in the 1800s? How was it the same?

  • What does the movie have to say about the American Dream, and making something of yourself? Is it easy? Is it possible?

  • Are the two main characters admirable, even though they steal? Why or why not? Do you consider them role models?

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