Parents' Guide to First Love

Movie NR 2022 120 minutes
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Tara McNamara By Tara McNamara , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Unconditional love, sex in sigh-inducing teen romance.

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age 14+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

FIRST LOVE follows the high school romance of Jim (Hero Fiennes Tiffin) and Ann (Sydney Park) as they approach graduation. At the same time, Jim's parents are struggling with financial hardship after Jim's dad (Jeffrey Donovan) is laid off.

Is It Any Good?

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Kids say ( 2 ):

Of all the teen romance movies out there, A.J. Edwards has created one of the loveliest and most meaningful. It's quiet and still, almost like a sculpture you walk around slowly until you realize you've come full circle. In comparing Jim and Ann's blooming, hopeful love with the steadfast love of Jim's parents, Kim (Diane Kruger) and Greg, whose marriage is being tested by financial strain, First Love reveals what "happily ever after" really looks like. As those in long-term marriages well know, commitment isn't all sunshine. Sometimes it rains. For years. But soul mates stick together for the rainbows.

Jim and Ann's romance is the full sigh. They fall in love through meaningful looks, gentle laughs, and mature outlooks (so mature, at times, they may lose a bit of relatability). The flourish is George Kallis' poignant score: Similar to Somewhere in Time's unforgettable use of Rachmaninoff's "Rhapsody on a Theme of Paganini," the slow piano and violin whispers in First Love intensify to allow the sweetness of the teens' emotions to reach the viewers' hearts. Adults will be brought back to those first butterflies and feeling like you have a heart that simultaneously stops and beats loudly; teens will hold their breath, dreaming of the moment when they meet someone special. It's telling that a priest character pops in at the beginning, the middle, and the end of the film, given how well the story exemplifies the oft-quoted scripture "Love is patient and kind..." First Love isn't a big film, and it doesn't make a loud statement -- but it's incredibly satisfying. For parents of lovestruck high schoolers in search of a film to help them realize what long-term commitment means beyond "I do," First Love is "the one."

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the meaning of "unconditional love." What examples did you see of it in First Love? In real life?

  • What does Greg mean when he tells Jim about Ann, "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never meant to be."

  • How do characters demonstrate humility and integrity? Why are those important character strengths?

  • When Greg is discouraged, Kim advises him to embrace gratitude. How can gratitude get us through tough times and help fend off feelings of depression? How does Kim demonstrate her gratitude?

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