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First Man

Movie review by
Sandie Angulo Chen, Common Sense Media
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Intimate, serious drama about reluctant space hero.
  • PG-13
  • 2018
  • 141 minutes
Parents recommend

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 14 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 5 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Celebrates traditionally American values such as competition, pioneering spirit, courage, teamwork, hard work -- all of which came into play to win space race to moon. Shows how Armstrong's quiet strength, determination helped make Apollo 11 a successful mission. Perseverance, humility are themes.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Armstrong is a smart, courageous, determined engineer, pilot, and astronaut. He loves his wife and children but is also focused on NASA mission. The astronauts are supportive, encouraging, even though they're also competing for spots on the moon mission. Janet is a kind, patient, caring wife and mother.


Several deaths due to mission/equipment failures -- most take place off camera. In one case, lead-up to the deaths is shown, with astronauts worrying, yelling for help as fire breaks out. Tense scenes in which astronauts in space have to overcome difficulties that could have life-threatening consequences. A child's death is implied; her small coffin is shown during a funeral.


A married couple dances, embraces, kisses.


Occasional strong language includes "holy s--t," "damn," "screw," "jackass," "hell," "Jesus Christ!," and one "f---ing."


Budweiser, Busch beer.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Adults drink beer at a couple of get-togethers/dinners. Several adults chain-smoke.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that First Man is Oscar-winning director Damien Chazelle's (La La Land) serious, fact-based movie about legendary astronaut Neil Armstrong. It's set during the tumultuous decade leading up to Armstrong's historic Apollo 11 moon mission. Ryan Gosling stars as Armstrong, the smart, brave, determined, extremely stoic engineer-pilot-astronaut who persevered to eventually become the first person to walk on the moon. Along the way, he and NASA must weather life-threatening situations including mission failures, dangerous test flights, and even the death of valued team members -- but this is more of an artful character study than an Apollo 13-style thriller. Expect social drinking, chain smoking, infrequent but memorable swearing (including "s--t," "damn," and one "f---ing"), and several tense, sad scenes of characters in peril. A child's death isn't shown, but the impact is clear. Claire Foy co-stars as Armstrong's wife, Janet, who has a larger role here than many "NASA wives" in similarly themed films. Some scenes were shot with a handheld camera in a way that can be jarring.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byleftoverredrover October 11, 2018

Grippingly well-made, beautiful drama has some brief strong language and upsetting content.

Potential problems for viewers are listed below: . One use of the “F” word, harsh but somewhat justified in context. . The tragic death of an infant occurs ea... Continue reading
Adult Written byMSB71 October 13, 2018

It was OK

I took my 12, 11 and 8 year old sons. The 8 year old was more interested in the accompanying popcorn but the 11 and 12 year olds were engaged. The movie was mor... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written bySAS1306 October 14, 2018

Great Movie, Great Acting!

I think that this is a beutifully directed movie about, In my opinion one lf the most important moments in history. It is a tough movie most of the astronaughts... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byBentleDolores February 1, 2019

Not a very serious Oscar contender, but, man, does it have it's moments.

First Man is probably not the first film most audiences are thinking of to boast about on their social media channel, but it's a poignant and honest tellin... Continue reading

What's the story?

FIRST MAN is Academy Award-winning Damien Chazelle's biopic about Neil Armstrong (Ryan Gosling). It takes place between 1961 and 1969, the years that took Armstrong from being a test pilot in California to a pioneering NASA astronaut in Houston to the first person to walk on the moon. While he's still flying planes in the Mojave desert, Neil and his wife, Janet (Claire Foy), experience the loss of their second child, Karen, who dies from brain cancer. Neil is then hired to officially join NASA's space program in Houston. There, he and Janet befriend the other astronauts, like Ed White (Jason Clarke), Elliott See (Patrick Fugit), and Jim Lovell (Pablo Schreiber), and their families as the men embark on often dangerous missions leading up to the race to the moon.

Is it any good?

Gosling gives a fabulous performance as the thoughtful, intelligent space pioneer in this intimate, visceral, serious biopic. Chazelle's adaptation of James R. Hansen's First Man: The Life of Neil A. Armstrong is an up close and personal exploration of Armstrong's life in the 1960s. The movie opens with a bumpy, hair-raising, dizzying test flight on the rocket-powered X-15 -- a scene that's contrasted with a heartbreaking sequence in which it's clear that Neil's little girl is sick. After her death, Neil can't allow anyone to see him break down, and that stoicism about loss continues throughout the years as he survives the death of fellow pilots and astronauts who weren't just colleagues but close friends. Gosling is a masterful actor: one who never overacts and seems to truly understand the art of subtlety. It helps that Armstrong isn't an alpha male space cowboy or an ambitious extrovert like Buzz Aldrin (Corey Stoll); he's humble, hardworking, and at times emotionally distant.

Although the movie offers plenty of nerve-wracking moments and beautiful cinematography (especially in the space/rocket scenes), this character study isn't as similar to Apolllo 13, Gravity, or The Right Stuff as moviegoers might expect. Chazelle keeps the film focused on the two Armstrongs, without trying to capture every major event or figure involved in the space race. Unlike many other fact-based movies about that time, which only superficially include the astronauts' wives, Chazelle gives Foy's Janet lots of screen time as the wife left behind to keep house, tamp down her nerves, and hope that her husband doesn't end up as another NASA casualty. Thanks to Josh Singer's deft script, Linus Sandgren's memorable cinematography, and Gosling and Foy's excellent performances -- buoyed by an excellent supporting cast -- First Man proves that Armstrong is a uniquely humble legend and that Chazelle is one of the most versatile filmmakers in Hollywood.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about Neil Armstrong's status as a role model in First Man. How does he/his story exhibit perseverance, courage, humility, and teamwork? Why are these important character strengths?

  • How is First Man similar to, and different from, other movies about space? What are some of your favorite space- or NASA-themed films?

  • Which is more memorable/impressive: the film's technical achievements or its character drama? Why?

  • Discuss the Armstrong family and the way Janet supported and dealt with Neil's dangerous pursuits. Why is it important to show her perspective?

  • How does Armstrong deal with the big events and feelings that come with being part of the space program? Is he in touch with his emotions? How would you describe him as a father and husband?

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