Movie review by
Michael Ordona, Common Sense Media
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Language, unhealthy sexuality in dark teen comedy.
  • R
  • 2018
  • 90 minutes

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 4 reviews

Kids say

age 15+
Based on 1 review

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

You could argue that there's a message about love being where you find it in this dark comedy, but it's not intended to be a message film.

Positive Role Models & Representations

The main parental figures are loving. Otherwise, the characters -- even/particularly the main character -- do lots of iffy stuff. There are eventually consequences for some of that behavior, but even those consequences are tempered by other factors. An extremely judgmental, shallow person does come to appreciate another person whom she initially rejects simply for his appearance.


Very brief fistfight. One act of violence that ends up having serious repercussions; the act itself isn't depicted graphically, but the result is gruesome. Pedophilia is a major plot point.


No nudity, but unhealthy sexuality is a key part/theme of the film. A teen girl makes a habit of performing oral sex on middle-aged men as part of a prostitution/extortion scheme; her feelings are totally divorced from her actions. She's aided by friends who think it's awesome. She draws useless boundaries to justify/limit the self-damage from her actions. Graphic drawings of male genitalia. Pervasive discussion of sex.


Lots of strong language, from the usual array of curses ("f--k," "s--t," "c--t," "ass," "bitch," etc.) to sexual lingo and graphic descriptions of sex acts and body parts. 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

A teen drinks beer with a middle-aged man. A group of teens slips a middle-aged man a roofie. The main character trades a sex act for drugs. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Flower is a dark comedy about a destructive teenage girl named Erica (Zoey Deutsch) that's far too mature for younger viewers. Unhealthy sexuality pervades the film, as does strong language ("f--k," "s--t," "c--t," "bitch," and many others). Very serious sexual situations -- including both some involving consent and others that are predatory -- are discussed and/or shown, including pedophilia/rape and teen prostitution/sexual extortion. There's also a smattering of drugs (slipping someone a roofie), drinking, and violence. Mostly, it's a very dark comedy that doesn't try to impose morality on its characters' extremely iffy behavior -- but those characters might seem appealing to younger viewers because of their cleverness or other sympathetic traits. It's intelligent and funny and a well-made movie, just not at all for kids. 

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byLiz C. March 15, 2018

For Mature Kids and Teens

This movie was really interesting. It focused on a teen girl who was kind of obsessed with male anatomy, and altogether decided to get revenge on men who molest... Continue reading
Adult Written byAleean R. December 4, 2020

Inappropriate & typical

First, this movie is very much like every other white centered coming of age film thats just odd and off. I think it normalizes unsafe sexual activity, addition... Continue reading
Teen, 16 years old Written byEt883 July 3, 2018

Great movie, but not for the younger teens

I have watched this movie 4 times and I’m in love! It deals with inappropriate subjects and sexual acts so I would not recommend to teens that have not witnesse... Continue reading

What's the story?

In FLOWER, high school student Erica (Zoey Deutsch) gleefully runs a prostitution/extortion scam with her friends. When her mom, Laurie (Kathryn Hahn), and her mom's boyfriend, Bob (Tim Heidecker), introduce Erica to his anxiety-ridden son, Luke (Joey Morgan) -- who's straight out of rehab -- Erica initially dismisses him. But after learning the roots of some of his issues, this teenage wrecking ball decides to use her powers for good ... sort of. When she and her friends become a band of opportunistic vigilantes, the result may be far more serious than they imagined. 

Is it any good?

Very well-written, acted, and directed, this dark comedy pulls off a difficult stunt: making a deeply objectionable character interesting enough to follow all the way along her messed-up journey. Flower is a suburban teen comedy set in the morally imbalanced universe of a Coen brothers film. When we meet Erica, she's performing a sex act on a middle-aged cop in order to extort him (with a little help from her friends). Erica sasses her soon-to-be-stepfather, idolizes her prison-languishing father, and shows no remorse for her iffy actions. When she meets her stepbrother-to-be, the beautiful girl immediately dismisses him because he's overweight and awkward. But when she finds out he may have been sexually abused by a male teacher, she mobilizes her pals into a vigilante squad. Her quest, however, takes her in unexpected directions, and she finds herself unsure of what to do -- perhaps for the first time ever. On balance, it's a comedy, but things get pretty dark.

The dialogue is sharp, dotted with both teen snark and confident idiocy. Erica persuades her friends to help catch Luke's assailant by blaming his obesity, anxiety, and suicide attempt on the alleged assault, saying if they don't stop the man, he'll attack others. ("Do you want that on your conscience?" "No," says her friend, solemnly, "I don't want anyone to be fat.") And when Erica wants to kiss a boy who knows of her activities, he says, "Your mouth has, like, 10,000 venereal diseases." The direction by Max Winkler (son of Henry) doesn't overplay the bad things; it lets us simply witness the slow-motion train wreck. Winkler allows space for nonverbal interactions -- the life between the lines. Casting director Rich Delia deserves kudos not just for landing the always-good Hahn (who's great here as a loving but worn-out mom) and Heidecker (quietly truthful), but also finding the lesser-known and hilarious Dylan Gelula and Maya Eshet to complete the dunderheaded teen vigilante set. Adam Scott's natural likability is perfect for the did-he-or-didn't-he possible molester; a highlight is his nerdy-bitchy debate about hip-hop with Erica. As Luke, Morgan is an effective cipher. He keeps us off-balance for most of the film. And in an audacious lead turn, Deutsch has the brass to go there. She's unafraid, which is what the part needs. Flower wraps up a bit too tidily, and its amoral universe definitely isn't for all moviegoers. But it's original, clever, funny, and ugly, making it -- perhaps -- a sunny noir? 

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how teen sexuality is usually depicted in films. Have you ever seen it depicted this way before? Does it seem realistic or extreme? 

  • Is it important that a story's main character be morally upright? Do Erica's extreme actions in Flower allow you to root for or sympathize with her? Is there a hero or villain in this film? 

  • What makes someone a role model? Are there any in this movie?

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