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Found
By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker,
Common Sense Media Reviewer
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Chinese adoptees look for their origins in moving docu.

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What's the Story?
From 1979 to 2015, Chinese law banned families from having more than one child. Few families could afford to pay the $8,500 fine. Many women had abortions and many others, especially those who gave birth to less valued girl babies, left the blanketed infants in crates and boxes, at building doorsteps, on busy streets, outside orphanages, some with money and birthdates pinned to them, in the dead of night. FOUND follows three adoptees, Sadie, Chloe, and Lily, teenagers living privileged middle-class lives in the U.S., who through DNA discovered they were cousins. Together they hire Liu Hao, a dedicated Chinese tour guide/detective/DNA researcher, who specializes in bringing adopted kids to China to see where they were found and, if they choose, to seek their birth parents. As a Chinese girl who knows her parents nearly gave her up, too, Liu is especially sympathetic to parents looking for abandoned children and adoptees seeking biological parents. The girls are unprepared for the emotional impact of being in China, seeing the spots they were abandoned, visiting their orphanages, meeting the loving workers who took care of them, and even meeting a family that gave up a baby. Adding to the built-in emotions is the evident poverty of the kinds of parents who had to give up babies in the early 2000s. The girls share feelings about their origins and allow their emotions to be recorded. They demonstrate wisdom beyond their years as they come to understand what their biological parents must have experienced.
Is It Any Good?
Found is an extraordinary piece of work. This beautifully, lovingly rendered film homes in on the meaning of family and the importance of human connection. As one adoptive parent puts it, adoption is all about grieving, by the kids given up for seemingly unknown reasons, and the anonymous birthparents who painfully gave those children up.
We see dedicated adoptive parents eager to help their kids learn what they can about their birthparents. The three Chinese-born girls confront emotions they didn't know they had, unraveling hidden fears of abandonment and learning empathy for biological parents who were powerless to make any decision but abandonment. We meet the orphanage caretakers who miraculously remember each baby, and though they were happy that the babies would be taken care of by loving adoptive parents, they also mourned the loss of babies they'd cared for over many months. If the film has a flaw, it would be postponing footage of the trip to China and the emotional revelations it exposes for the girls, their parents, and potential birthparents targeted by the dogged researcher.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how difficult it would be to give up a baby. How well does the documentary succeed in showing us the pain of the birth parents who gave up children?
How well does the film show how adopted kids process the emotions associated with being abandoned by birth parents?
Why do you think the Chinese researcher who helps adoptees find birth parents feels so connected to the work she does?
What character strengths do the main characters in the documentary display?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: October 20, 2021
- Director: Amanda Lipitz
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Documentary
- Character Strengths: Compassion , Courage , Empathy
- Run time: 97 minutes
- MPAA rating: PG
- MPAA explanation: thematic content and brief smoking
- Last updated: January 19, 2023
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