Heartwarming 1990s classic has language, violence.
Parents Need to Know
Why Age 13+?
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Fried Green Tomatoes is a heartwarming drama based on the same-named novel by Fannie Flagg (who co-wrote the film's screenplay) about dissatisfied housewife Evelyn (Kathy Bates), who is inspired to change by the exciting stories told to her by 83-year-old Ninny (Jessica Tandy). Several characters die, including main characters. A KKK mob intimidates and whips beloved characters. A man slaps his wife across the face and kicks her down a flight of stairs. Characters carry guns, punch and grapple, and get hit in the head with shotgun butts and shovels. Train accidents lead to limb loss and death. Language includes "s--t," "goddamn," "hell," "midget," and "bitch," and White people use the "N" word. Characters also drink and smoke. Characters get married, have crushes, and kiss. Two main characters have an intense bond that's implied to be romantic. In a class that teaches wives to put the "spark" back in their marriages, women are instructed to take off their panties, "straddle your mirrors," and discuss masturbation—played for humor, with nothing sensitive shown. Black characters are clichéd and exist to serve White characters' storylines, and there are iffy messages about body image, but the film shows courageous women, a character in her 80s, and implied queer people living full, complex lives.
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Language
some
Language includes "s--t," "ass," "goddamn," "screw you," "fat cow," "old bitch," "bastard," and "sissified" (to mean looking like a "sissy"). A child says "to hell with them." A character is described as "a little bitty thing, no bigger than a midget." White people use the "N" word and "Coloreds" to refer to Black people.
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KKK members whip a Black man and smash windows; one member breaks into a home to intimidate his estranged wife. A man slaps his wife across the face and kicks her down a flight of stairs. Characters carry guns, punch and grapple, and get hit in the head with shotgun butts and shovels. Characters are knocked out—murdered, in one instance (no blood shown)—and have injuries like a small nosebleed and black eye. A train rushes toward someone whose foot is caught in the tracks; onlookers scream, and the scene then cuts to a funeral. Another train hits a child (off-screen); later scenes show the child healthy but with limb loss. A character jumps from a moving train and twists her ankle (no visible injuries). A main character has a terminal illness; there are sad bedside scenes, and she dies peacefully on-screen. A tall tale recounts a murder victim who is barbecued and eaten by an unsuspecting person.
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Characters drink and infrequently smoke cigarettes, a cigar, and a pipe. Drunken behavior in a bar. A caregiver holds up syringes of unidentified medicine intended for a sick person.
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Characters get married, have crushes, and kiss. Two main characters have an intense bond that's implied to be romantic through lingering looks, face caresses, and a declaration of "she's my best friend, and I love her" to a crowd. In a class that teaches wives to put the "spark" back in their marriages, women are instructed to take off their panties and "straddle your mirrors" and to discuss masturbation—played for humor, with nothing sensitive shown.
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Close-ups on a box of Krispy Kreme donuts and a six-pack of Budweiser.
Positive Role Models
a lot
Evelyn is unhappy with her marriage at first and doesn't take care of herself. But after she's inspired by Ninny's stories, Evelyn develops the courage to stand up for herself and to demand the best out of her life and relationships. Ninny, who's in her 80s, has lived a full life and shares her youthful energy with Evelyn. Idgie is a free-spirited woman who defies convention, living life on her own terms. Several supporting and minor characters show prejudices, including violent KKK members, and Black characters are mainly shown in stereotypical service roles.
Positive Messages
some
Have the courage to live life on your own terms, even if it goes against mainstream society. Women have full, complex lives, and they don't need men to start successful businesses or to be happy. Aging is portrayed in a positive light—it begets wisdom and stories, and our older generations pass down histories that should be treasured and remembered. Racism, domestic abuse, and gender inequality are shown against the backdrop of Great Depression-era rural Alabama.
Diverse Representations
some
Centers on White women who defy gender and age stereotypes. Idgie is implied to be a lesbian; she wears a tie and pants, and, during one gender-bending performance, she plays a husband while the "wife" is played by a male actor wearing a dress. Idgie and Ruth's love is strongly queer-coded through lingering looks, face caresses, a romantic, moonlit kiss on the cheek, and Ruth's declaration of "she's my best friend, and I love her" to a crowd. An 83-year-old woman has a main role and is portrayed positively with youthful energy. But toxic body image messages link eating with low self-esteem (e.g., when Evelyn is depressed, she eats candy bars, but when she's happy, she eats raw vegetables and works out), and a character calls herself a "fat cow." Black characters fall into stereotypical service roles, and Big George is portrayed as intimidating yet also victimized when he's whipped by KKK members. On the plus side (spoiler alert!), Black characters survive the film, and the modern-day scenes show a Black woman in a neutral role as someone's daughter-in-law. A character loses his arm in an accident; later scenes show him dealing with bullying, but he's otherwise happy and supported by the adults around him.
Parents say the film presents a beautiful story with important messages about friendship, empowerment, and standing up against societal issues, but it also contains elements that some may find objectionable, such as blasphemy and depictions of violence. While performances, particularly by one lead actress, are praised, others feel it glosses over deeper themes present in the source material and may not be suitable for all audiences due to its intense subject matter.
beautiful story
strong performances
empowerment themes
intense subject matter
inappropriate elements
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age 11+
Based on 14 kid reviews
Kids say this film is a heartwarming story that tackles heavy themes such as love, violence, and societal issues, including the presence of the KKK. While it is praised for its positive messages and depiction of strong characters, some reviewers note that it contains mature content like cursing and references to abuse, making it more suitable for older tweens and teens.
heartwarming story
mature content
strong characters
positive messages
family movie
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What's the Story?
In FRIED GREEN TOMATOES, Evelyn (Kathy Bates) is a repressed Southern housewife in an unhappy marriage when she meets Ninny Threadgoode (Jessica Tandy) at an assisted living community. Ninny tells Evelyn the story of Idgie (Mary Stuart Masterson) and Ruth's (Mary-Louise Parker) life together in the tiny Alabama town of Whistle Stop. Idgie, a rakish young woman who's prone to smoking and gambling, and God-fearing Ruth face abusive husbands, the KKK, and even a murder trial together. Through it all, they raise Ruth's son, Buddy Jr. (Grayson Fricke), and learn how important it is to protect those you love no matter what.
Like all good Southern gothic stories, this film adaptation serves up a heaping portion of tall tales, scary situations, and explorations of social issues. Fried Green Tomatoes unfolds in ellipses and fable-like flashbacks that make it both spellbinding and frightening, teaching viewers the importance of altruism. But it wouldn't be the long-standing favorite it is without its phenomenal performances. Bates, Tandy, Cicely Tyson, and Parker bring this tale to life, and, with a powerful same-sex love story at its core—veiled as it is, given its 1990s release—the film deserves to be watched for years to come.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about empowerment in Fried Green Tomatoes. Many characters stray from social conventions to feel empowered. Is ignoring your critics a good idea sometimes? Was it a good idea for Idgie? Was it for Ruth? Why, or why not?
How do you think Idgie and Ruth's relationship would be handled today, as compared to when this movie came out in 1991?
How did this movie use the "story within a story" form to show how the experiences of the past can illuminate and have relevance to the lives of today?
Ruth is abused by her husband, which might be a good opportunity for caregivers to talk to their kids. How do you disagree with your partner in a healthy way? What behavior is unacceptable? What are the signs of a toxic situation?
Which characters show courage? What do you do in your own life that takes courage? Why is this an important character strength?
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