Ghosts of Girlfriends Past

Movie review by
S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media
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Predictable romcom has some iffy stuff, but OK for teens.
  • PG-13
  • 2009
  • 100 minutes

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 13 reviews

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 20 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

A chauvinistic man who believes that women should be loved and left gets his comeuppance; ultimately, he's persuaded by true love to put his best foot forward.

Positive Role Models & Representations

While the main character is a shameless womanizer, it's clear that he's not meant to be taken seriously as a role model -- and he learns the error of his ways.


A woman slaps a man; two brothers yell at each other; a man crashes his car at the bottom of a hill.


Lots of innuendoes ("spooning isn't as much fun as forking," etc.) and a fair amount of discussion about what women and men want in bed. Deep kissing, though some of it is played for laughs. Characters talk about wanting "wedding sex," a man gropes his brother's future mother-in-law, and scantily clad women prance around a photographer's studio -- later, one of them is seen straddling the photographer and making out with him.


Language includes one use of "s--t," plus "a--hole," "ass," "damn," "hell," "bitch," "laid," "banged," "screwed," "dick," "oh my God," and "goddamn."


A Polaroid camera figures in the plot, and characters mention alcohol brands by name.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

One character talks about snorting a pile of cocaine (but it's not shown). Characters drink heavily during a wedding weekend, sometimes intentionally to excess. An uncle takes an eighth grader to a bar and orders hard liquor for him.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this predictable romantic comedy about a shameless womanizer who ultimately sees the error of his ways has plenty of innuendo and discussion about sex, though there's more talk than action. Expect to see deep kissing, some groping, and a clothed man being straddled by a scantily clad woman while they make out. There's also some swearing ("bitch," "damn," etc.) and drinking, including a scene in which an uncle buys his eighth-grade nephew a drink in a bar.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 9-year-old Written byJennyjenny25 June 22, 2020

Sexist and poor images of women- terrible role models

I recently watched this with my 9 year old daughter and 2 boys, 12 and 13. My daughter is mature. This had very provocative scenes. Women are so poorly portraye... Continue reading
Adult Written byTV-14-DLSV Teen Boy March 25, 2012

Just fine Movie

Ghosts of Girlfriends Past is good My mom loves that movie and My sister thinks it's okay like me. I think it's Just fine a little funny and kindoff... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written byJules334 July 16, 2017


Okay, so this is an interesting movie to review. I saw it when i was 14 and couldn't get through it because it was EXTREMELY racy. While I LOVE Matthew and... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written bybrymche August 2, 2011

Eeeh, okay I guess

A lot of sexual terminology and some swearing. Not too bad though. Okay for 13 and up.

What's the story?

Celebrity photographer Connor Mead (Matthew McConaughey) is so slick that he might as well be an oil tanker. He beds women as often as he photographs them, and he never lets himself get involved. Not exactly the kind of guy you'd want to have as your best man, but that's his role at his brother's (Breckin Meyer) upcoming wedding. Connor starts the evening off by sparring with ex-girlfriend Jenny (Jennifer Garner), fondling the mother of the bride (Anne Archer), telling his brother he can still back out, and even divulging a huge secret that hurts the bride (Lacey Chabert). No wonder he starts seeing a steady stream of ghosts (a la A Christmas Carol), led by his dead uncle (Michael Douglas), who, when he was alive, taught Connor everything he knew about avoiding commitment.

Is it any good?

GHOSTS OF GIRLFRIENDS PAST hews close to the romantic comedy "rules" -- you know where it's going to end within the first half hour. Which isn't to say the film's a fright. The premise may be tired, the jokes stale, and the script trite ("Pain beats regret every day of the week, and twice on Sunday," for example), but it's actually more amusing than expected thanks to two critical casting choices. First, there's Garner: Quick with verbal volleys and arch reaction shots, she grounds the movie in girl-next-door goodness. The fact that someone like her would like someone like McConaughey's Connor makes us want to believe in what romcoms sell -- love that makes no sense but works anyway. Then there's Douglas, who appears to be channeling both Hugh Hefner and Jack Nicholson. This is the Douglas we adored in Wonder Boys -- no spit-shine, no polish, just rough edges with a hint of sleaze. (Who knew playing sordid could be so fun?)

McConaughey is also relatively solid, but Garner and the supporting characters outshine him, especially Chabert, as a well-meaning woman on the verge of becoming Bridezilla, and Meyer, who adds heart to a frothy script. It's a little off putting to see A Christmas Carol "reimagined" in this manner, but we won't be a Scrooge and say it's all for naught. Truth is, there are enough laughs to entertain, if not enthrall.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the movie's messages about relationships and sex. Why is Connor's behavior so bad? Why do you think he turned out the way he did? And why does Jenny still have feelings for him, considering how he treated her?

  • How is this movie similar to and different from other romantic comedies?

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