Parents' Guide to Gone Girl

Movie R 2014 145 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Violent, layered adaptation is dark but thrilling.

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Why Age 17+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 17+

Based on 27 parent reviews

age 16+

Based on 39 kid reviews

Kids say the film is a thrilling, dark, and twisted story that is exceptionally well-crafted, but many reviewers emphasize that it's not appropriate for younger audiences due to its graphic violence, strong language, and sexual content. While some young viewers found it manageable and captivating, most agree that it’s best suited for mature teens aged 16 and older due to its intense themes and potentially disturbing scenes.

  • graphic content
  • dark themes
  • intense storyline
  • mature viewing
  • strong language
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What's the Story?

On the day of his fifth wedding anniversary, bar owner Nick Dunne (Ben Affleck) faces a new world order: His wife, Amy (Rosamund Pike), has gone missing, their coffee table smashed to pieces. Cops descend upon the Dunnes' Missouri subdivision to help find her, but soon all eyes are trained on Nick, who hasn't exactly been a model husband. But Amy hasn't always been the perfect wife, either. Nick has his sister Margo (Carrie Coon) on his side and soon enlists a lawyer (Tyler Perry) famous for defending the indefensible. Everyone -- including Nick, who's desperate to clear his name -- wants to know: Where is Amy?

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 27 ):
Kids say ( 39 ):

Director David Fincher's steady hand effortlessly guides GONE GIRL's transition from noir-ish page-turner to psychological thriller. It's a creepy, unsettling ride, testing audiences' loyalties and freaking them out a little, too, as they teeter to and fro. The book makes better work of asking salient questions about the nature of relationships; the movie amps up the source material's more tabloid-y side. It's violent, yes, but judiciously so, except for one scene that pushes boundaries -- perhaps so viewers can feel the impact, in full gruesomeness, of what humans are capable of, even if they don't appear to be.

In any case, we're riveted -- and not just because the framing and pacing and pretty much everything else about the movie are top-notch (except for the last 10 minutes, which feel tacked on), but because the leads are so compelling. Critics have long grumbled about Affleck's impenetrability. No matter who he's playing, we don't quite fully know what he's all about. But here he's totally present, and we sense his panic and confusion, anger and derision. It's quite a cocktail. But really, this is Pike's movie; in less able hands, the role of Amy, not to mention the scenery, would have been chewed to bits. Pike is precise, engaging, and perplexing. Even if you've already read the book, the film still holds your gaze.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Gone Girl's violence. How does it compare to what you've seen in other thrillers and/or horror movies? Does the one particularly gory/bloody scene have more impact because it's different from the rest of the movie? Why or why not?

  • What role does sex play in the story? How is it entangled with violence? What message does that send?

  • Are any of the characters admirable? Are they intended to be? Who are we meant to root for/sympathize with?

  • If you've read Flynn's novel, what do you think of this as an adaptation? Is it faithful to the original story? If not, do the changes serve the film?

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