Grave of the Fireflies

  • Review Date: February 11, 2010
  • Rated: NR
  • Genre: Drama
  • Release Year: 1988
  • Running Time: 77 minutes

Common Sense Media says

Japanimation WWII tragedy the saddest. Cartoon. Ever.
  • Review Date: February 11, 2010
  • Rated: NR
  • Genre: Drama
  • Release Year: 1988
  • Running Time: 77 minutes





What parents need to know

Positive messages

Melancholy message is about civilians -- especially orphaned children -- being the most helpless and overlooked victims in the chaos of wartime, and the way the two in the story manage to construct a fragile, two-person society all by themselves, out of sibling love, sharing, and innocence. But it doesn't save them.

Positive role models

Seita's existence (once his parents are lost) seems to revolve around his little sister, but he does show signs of irresponsibility and dangerous inattention, and he turns into a thief and looter to feed the two of them. His aunt scolds Seita for laziness and not doing his share, and she may be right. Other adults seem numbed into states of semi-indifference.


Aerial incendiary barrage kills civilians and leaves charred, dead/dying bodies, bloody wounds, and burns. A fighter plane strafes villages with bullets. Flies buzz around a covered corpse. Seita is beaten.

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A brand of Japanese hard candy will go unrecognized by most English-speaking viewers.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking
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Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that fans of Japanese animation -- heck, fans of all animation -- pretty much agree, this is the saddest cartoon of all time, a potentially traumatic viewing experience. Two sympathetic children sicken and slowly die (and their mother is hideously wounded before her own demise), with the only balm being that the kids' spirits have a tender afterlife reunion. There is a beating, wartime aerial bombardment and gunfire, and other dead bodies are shown, both soldiers and civilians. The larger issues of WWII (like why Americans might be incinerating Japanese villagers) are never discussed. A few minor plot details are best comprehended with a knowledge of Japanese custom and culture (especially funerals!).

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Kids say

What's the story?

In a Japanese train station in September 1945, a ragged, starved, homeless youth dies, barely noticed by the cleanup crew getting set for the arriving, victorious American WWII forces. The boy's spirit unites with a little girl, and in a flashback we learn that they are a brother, Seita, and his small sister, Setsuko. With Seita's father serving in the Japanese Imperial Navy and their mother ailing, Seita spends most of his time looking lovingly after Setsuko. When American bombardment destroys their home and kills their mother, the two children move in with an unwelcoming aunt, Seito keeping the awful truth from Setsuko as best he can. Unable to tolerate his aunt's insults, Seita leaves with Setsuko to live by themselves in a disused bomb shelter, catching fireflies for illumination and stealing food. But malnutrition and illness ruins Setsuko's health. As Japan surrenders, Setsuko dies, and a heartbroken Seita (resigned that his father is also likely dead) cremates his little sister shortly before his own end.

Is it any good?


Even seen-it-all critics such as Roger Ebert admit to having been moved to tears by GRAVE OF THE FIREFLIES -- which is based on actual events. Though the author of the 1967 novel, who lost his kid sister during the war, obviously lived to write ruefully about it afterwards, one gets a tragic sense from this material of witnessing a story that comes from directly the voiceless, the countless unnamed, unknown child casualties of war and government violence, not necessarily in WWII but everywhere.

The visually beautiful but realistic animation offers no fantasy heroics, no talking-animal sidekicks, and only the merest comfort (actually a whole new level of poignancy all by itself) when the deceased brother and sister meet again as spirits. There are far more violent WWII films -- and anime -- but this doesn't need graphic bloodshed for devastating impact, and it should be watched with the same caution that some parents might reserve for Schindler's List.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the way the characters react to the strife of wartime. What might you have done in Seita's place?

  • Why does Seita make the calamitous decision to try and live with Setsuko all on his own?

  • Would this story have been equally as affecting if it had been told using live-action, not animation? What if characters had been grownups, not kids?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:April 16, 1988
DVD release date:July 7, 2009
Cast:J. Robert Spencer, Rhoda Chrosite, Veronica Taylor
Director:Isao Takahata
Studio:Central Park Media
Run time:77 minutes
MPAA rating:NR

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Kid, 12 years old December 23, 2010

*sniffles* definately most saddest movie. EVER.

It is the most depressing, saddest movie. I almost cried (i never cry in movies) My mom burst in HUGE tears just when the mom got bombed. My sis was just playing nintendo, so i cant decide for her. In the story, both main characters die. The boy in the beginning is him... It is very sad, and touching at the same time (i will never look at the fact WE bombed 'em) *sniffles* I'm definately not gonnna watch THAT again. *clicks "delete" from netflix* parents be warned, this is very sad. Best to watch in late tweens and up......*sniffles*
Teen, 16 years old Written bySamurai 2.0 May 6, 2011

Sad, graphic family film.

Keep a tissue box next to you. It's likely you will be brought to tears by this film. It includes death and bombings, and both are the main tear jerkers. Young kids shouldn't watch it alone, despite my review. Watch it as a family. Discuss the issues of these vicious attacks. You will be moved after watching this film, or I will pay you my entire college fund, saved up since I was five.
Teen, 17 years old Written byToBreakFate December 4, 2010

soooo sad

it was sooo good and i cried very, very hard by the end.


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