Parents' Guide to Greenberg

Movie R 2010 107 minutes
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S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 18+

Unhealthy relationship is focus of darkly funny adult drama.

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age 17+

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age 13+

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What's the Story?

After being released from a psychiatric hospital, New Yorker Roger Greenberg (Ben Stiller) travels to L.A. to house-sit and dog-watch for his brother (Chris Messina) while he vacations with family in Thailand. Unsure of what to do next, Roger claims he's "doing nothing on purpose." He spends his days walking the dog and writing complaints to airlines, pet taxis, Starbucks, and everything else in between. He also catches up with a former bandmate (Rhys Ifans) and ponders how they once were musicians on the brink of fame. Plus, he gets to know -- and pulls back from -- his brother's personal assistant, Florence (Greta Gerwig). At 25, Florence is impatient for the world to reveal its master plan to her, and unsure of her next move. She falls for Roger despite how his destructive nature often outmaneuvers his need to connect.

Is It Any Good?

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GREENBERG begins with Gerwig, and from that moment on, the film is hers; she gives Florence a loudly beating heart and a determined stride. This makes her twentysomething ennui and terror compelling and believable. And then there's Stiller. It's hard to hug a porcupine, and he makes for a good one. As Roger, he exhibits -- and sheds -- more layers than he ever has in his career. He's rude, selfish, and myopic, but also bewildered, yearning, and scared. For their performances alone, it's worth seeing the film.

It's also freshly conceived, totally humane and gorgeous, too, and may be director Noah Baumbach's best movie yet. The Squid and the Whale distilled parental self-absorption within a very specific time and place, but this film's much less claustrophobic; we feel the story instead of observe it. Which may explain why we feel so frustrated in the end, too. Roger and Florence feel like such real people, it's hard to believe in a happily ever after (or even a while). In the end, Roger's metamorphosis seems rushed and inauthentic, and Florence's acceptance of him nearly pathetic. When Roger tells her she has "value," we long for her to truly believe it.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about Roger: Why is he the way he is and what does he gain by being that grumpy? What are the costs?

  • What attracts Roger and Florence to each other? Is it a believable coupling? Is it healthy? Is it typical of Hollywood movies?

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