Her Smell

Movie review by
Jeffrey M. Anderson, Common Sense Media
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Great lead performance in overlong, mature drama.
  • R
  • 2019
  • 134 minutes

Parents say

age 18+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 15+
Based on 1 review

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Effort can help overcome past mistakes and behavior; even those who are very flawed can atone for their sins and try to be more responsible and respectful.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Becky Something may be a great character, but she's no role model. She's awful through most of the movie and terribly flawed, but she does try hard to overcome her drug and alcohol abuse and her mistreatment of others. She tries to atone for her sins and tries to be more responsible and respectful.


Main character breaks a bottle and threatens others with it. Some blood shown. She falls and sports a bleeding head wound. General yelling, chaos, smashing, etc.


Kissing in several scenes.


Fairly frequent use of "f--k," "s--t," "bulls--t." A couple uses of "c--t."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Drinking is said to contribute to the main character's downfall, and some drinking is shown (by her and others), but viewers rarely actually see her drink. Years later she's declared "a year sober." A supporting character has a cocaine habit. Cigarette smoking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Her Smell is a drama about the lead singer of a fictional band who spirals out of control and then tries to pick up the pieces. It's tough to watch -- especially the erratic, headache-inducing first half -- but eventually Elisabeth Moss' strong, dynamic performance wins the day. Expect plenty of mature material: The main character is said to have an addiction problem (though she's rarely seen actually drinking or doing drugs), a secondary character snorts cocaine, and people smoke cigarettes. Language is strong and frequent, including "f--k," "s--t," and more. A broken bottle is brandished (some blood), and a character falls and sustains a bloody head wound. Two women kiss in several scenes.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 8, 10, and 13-year-old Written byDenise A. April 30, 2019

Too intense for anyone under 20

This is a rough character study of rough characters from the punk music scene of the 1980's. If you're in or around the music business, it's for... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byPugsrock28 April 28, 2020

Her Smell....(did she fart?)

This movie shows the HIGHS and LOWS of being in the 1980s punk rock scene.
Acting is incredible

What's the story?

In HER SMELL, rock star Becky Something (Elisabeth Moss) -- lead singer of the band Something She -- spirals out of control. Among others, she alienates her bandmates, Marielle Hell (Agyness Deyn) and Ali van der Wolff (Gayle Rankin); her manager, Howard Goodman (Eric Stoltz); and Danny (Dan Stevens), the father of her baby daughter, with her awful behavior. Wasting hours upon hours in the studio, she gets a charge when a new, young girl band (Cara Delevingne, Ashley Benson, and Dylan Gelula) walks in. Becky demands to record with them, which is the final straw for her old bandmates. Years later, newly sober, Becky is afraid to leave the house. A visit from Marielle, Danny, and her daughter allows her to open up about her feelings. But her greatest challenge is yet to come: reuniting on stage for an anniversary show.

Is it any good?

After a headache-inducing first half, this erratic, overlong drama slows down and grabs a breath, and it's possible to see that Moss' volcanic, 5,000-degree performance is the real thing. Viewers who make it through the first half of Alex Ross Perry's Her Smell will be rewarded, but it isn't easy. An hour or so of screen time is marred by crazy camerawork; a droning, thumping sound design; and screechy, theatrical performances. Dialogue that should sound spontaneous instead sounds written and rehearsed, like a ranting, rejected stage play. It's all extremely high-pitched and exhausting.

But when the story cuts to years later, with Becky slowly, methodically making a cup of tea and staring into the middle distance (waiting for a chicken-shaped kitchen timer to tell her the tea is steeped), the performance finally begins to take shape. The movie and the character become grounded, and the range and intensity of Moss' work recalls nothing less than Vivien Leigh in Gone with the Wind and A Streetcar Named Desire. Her Smell tries for a victorious ending, and it doesn't entirely click, but by that point Moss has completely won us over.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how Her Smell depicts substance abuse. How are Becky's drug and alcohol use portrayed? What's her behavior like? Is anything glamorized? What are the consequences?

  • What do you think the upsides and downsides might be of performing music for a living and being famous? Does the movie make it look appealing?

  • How are women portrayed in this movie? Are they well-rounded, with their own lives, desires, fears, etc.?

  • What are the movie's mother-daughter relationships like? What went well, and what could be improved?

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