Parents' Guide to Here Before

Movie R 2022 83 minutes
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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Emotional psychological thriller has language, adult themes.

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What's the Story?

In HERE BEFORE, Laura (Andrea Riseborough) lives a quiet life in a small Northern Irish town with her husband Brendan (Jonjo O'Neil) and son Tadhg (Lewis McAskie). Their world is turned upside down when a new family moves in next door and Laura is drawn to their young daughter Megan (Niamh Dornan), becoming increasingly convinced that she could be the reincarnation of her own daughter, who was killed in a car crash.

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In this grief-stricken drama, Riseborough gives an award-worthy performance as Laura, a grieving mother who is offered a glimmer of hope for connection with her late daughter, Josie. As Laura becomes convinced that her neighbor's child is a reincarnation of Josie, Here Before sensitively presents Laura's interpretation of events as believable enough, while still posing questions about its logic. The cinematography helps create the slightly off-kilter atmosphere that explores whether it is the outside world where something feels amiss, or if that fracture is within Laura's own psyche. Intense close-ups, lingering long-shots, flashes of figures just out of frame, and abstract, disorienting images enhance the feeling of otherworldliness and sense of tension and impending dread. These emotions are made even more unnerving when scored with haunting children's songs.

Here Before steadily builds an intimate yet uneasy world, with great supporting performances all round -- particularly in Dornan, whose turn as Megan is smart, knowing, and beyond her years, leaning into the theme of reincarnation and older souls. Unfortunately the twist ending leaves things feeling a little flat. Coming and going far too quickly, it results in lingering questions that serve to break the spell in a way that doesn't quite pay off.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how Here Before explored themes around loss. Have you experienced grief? If so, did this movie resonate with you? Why, or why not? In what ways can loved ones stay with us after their death? How to talk to kids about difficult subjects.

  • Laura's perception of reality is questioned by the audience, her family, and even herself. How did the film portray this and how did it compare to other films that question a character's reliability?

  • Discuss the strong language used. Did it seem necessary or excessive? Was it needed to make the story more realistic?

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