Parents' Guide to I Don't Expect Anyone to Believe Me

Movie NR 2023 117 minutes
I Don't Expect Anyone to Believe Me movie poster: A man sits outside with a gun in his lap

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Jose Solis By Jose Solis , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Smart thriller has violence, language, and nudity.

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What's the Story?

In I DON'T EXPECT ANYONE TO BELIEVE ME, shortly before leaving Mexico for Barcelona, where he will conduct post-graduate studies, Juan Pablo (Dario Yazbek) is contacted by a mysterious group of people who threaten to hurt his loved ones if he doesn't follow their instructions. Soon, Juan Pablo finds himself leading a double life as he goes to school while engaging in criminal activities, including murder. Desperately trying to find a way to understand what's happening to him, Juan Pablo begins to write about what he's experiencing and realizes he might have a crime genre masterpiece in the making.

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With only three films to his name, director Fernando Frias has created one of the most unapologetic, riveting bodies of work in contemporary cinema, capturing modern Mexico at its best and worst. In Rezeta, he focused on the fast life of a supermodel, in I'm No Longer Here, the plight of a young migrant, and in the masterful I Don't Expect Anyone to Believe Me, the byzantine process of trying to escape corruption. Dario Yazbek gives a stellar performance as the wide-eyed Juan Pablo, whose dreams of becoming a novelist seem to be shattered when he's unwillingly recruited to serve a criminal cartel while he attends grad school in Barcelona. Soon he realizes the horrific events that become his new normal might be the greatest source of literary inspiration, turning a thriller on its head as it becomes the darkest of satires.

Not for the faint of heart, and certainly not suitable for kids, I Don't Expect Anyone to Believe Me, is a violent, brainy thriller that combines genres and multilayered narratives deftly. Frias is at the top of his game, creating a film that entertains and illuminates (its commentary on colorism, racism, and colonialism is invaluable). At times it might feel too insular and erudite (the jokes about graduate studies almost turn into self-parody) but those willing to surrender to the film's pace and strange sense of humor will be rewarded with one of the best thrillers in recent years.



Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the experience of studying abroad. What would you miss the most about home? How would you keep in touch with your loved ones?

  • Juan Pablo uses his life events to write a novel. Have you had experiences that would make for an interesting book? What genre would it be?

  • How does Valentina show resilience and courage in Barcelona? What would you do if you were in her shoes?

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