Parents' Guide to I, Tonya

Movie R 2017 119 minutes
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Michael Ordona By Michael Ordona , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Fact-based dark comedy has strong language, domestic abuse.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 8 parent reviews

age 14+

Based on 30 kid reviews

Kids say that this film is exceptionally well-crafted, with strong performances, particularly from the lead actresses, but it's important to note that it contains frequent swearing and intense scenes of domestic abuse, making it unsuitable for younger viewers. Many viewers appreciate its dark humor and emotional storytelling, recommending it for mature teens who can handle the heavy themes involved.

  • strong performances
  • dark humor
  • intense content
  • swearing present
  • suitable for mature teens
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What's the Story?

In I, TONYA, scrappy Tonya Harding (Margot Robbie) overcomes class divisions to become a world-class figure skater. Despite a fraught relationship with her (depicted as) abusive mother, LaVona (Allison Janney), and an explosive one with her (depicted as) abusive boyfriend/husband, Jeff Gillooly (Sebastian Stan), Harding rises to compete at the highest levels. But on the cusp of the 1994 Winter Olympics, an attack on her chief rival, Nancy Kerrigan (Caitlin Carver), threatens to undo everything Harding has worked for.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 8 ):
Kids say ( 30 ):

This blackly comic chronicle of an event we all thought we knew about will be remembered long after the end credits roll. The real-life Harding has given I, Tonya her seal of approval, so it's not surprising that the movie is sympathetic to her, but it's a feat to pull it off with such aplomb. Robbie's portrayal gets under the skin of a person shaped by abandonment, abuse, and class warfare. Her Tonya is a fighter, a survivor. Despite codependent relationships with her abusers and some pretty poor decisions, the lower-working-class girl makes herself into a force in the hoity-toity figure skating world (at least, as it's depicted in the film). And all this is accomplished on-screen with humor and spirit. Director Craig Gillespie (The Finest Hours, Million Dollar Arm) and writer Steven Rogers (P.S. I Love You, Hope Floats) have never demonstrated anything like this in their filmographies -- the closest would be Gillespie's offbeat Lars and the Real Girl. But I, Tonya is snappy, biting, and dark. It's hilarious in its depictions of the morons plotting the infamous attack on Kerrigan and painful in showing the incident's impact on Harding.

The film shows a completely different side of Harding than you get from news coverage, but ultimately, it's all about truth and perspective. I, Tonya challenges what you believe. Toward that end, it offers multiple points of view of events, including intentionally conflicting ones. Stan must play Gillooly as an abusive jerk, a well-meaning supporter, and a dimwitted criminal "mastermind," all at the same time. Janney transforms as Harding's toxic mother, whose actions can seem over-the-top but remain anchored by a committed performance. As young Tonya, the outstanding McKenna Grace (so good in Gifted) makes a very strong impression in her limited screen time. Her goodbye moment with her father is heartbreaking. But the big story here is Robbie, the film's co-producer and star, who trained intensively to pull off most of the role's physical demands. Her performance never feels as if it's manipulating us to feel sorry for Harding; rather, she seems to be getting down to business as a character. There's a lot to get behind with this version of Harding, and Robbie makes sure we're all with her. She's tough. She never feels as if she's commenting on the infamous character (even when breaking the fourth wall). Her courtroom scene is plain great acting. Without her convincing portrayal, the film wouldn't succeed in making us rethink Harding, the incident, and her fate.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how their opinions of real-life events are shaped by news stories and movies. What did you know about the Harding-Kerrigan incident before seeing I, Tonya? What assumptions had you made? Did the movie change your mind? How accurately do you think the movie presents people and events?

  • How does the film portray domestic abuse? How did watching those scenes make you feel? Did they have more or less impact than other kinds of movie violence?

  • What message does it send to see champion athletes smoking and doing drugs? What's the intent of these scenes?

  • Why do you think the filmmakers chose to barely depict Kerrigan at all? Do you think the film is fair to Gillooly?

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