Parents' Guide to I Used to Be Funny

Movie NR 2024 106 minutes
I Used to Be Funny movie poster: White woman's eyes look upward

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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Comic copes with PTSD and a missing teen; rape, language.

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What's the Story?

Just when Sam (Rachel Sennott) thinks she's out of the life of the man who raped her, she nevertheless feels compelled to help rescue Brooke (Olga Petsa), the missing teenage daughter she was an au pair for. In I USED TO BE FUNNY, clever, brave Sam retreats into depression and fear after the police officer dad of her young charge sexually assaults her. As the film begins, standup comedian Sam has not stepped on stage since that traumatic incident. Flashbacks show her confidently rattling off her material for an appreciative audience, her jokes about toxic masculinity and the lameness of straight men landing well. Her sex-positive but man-averse straight woman routine seems prescient when the run-up to the rape is finally shown.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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Kids say : Not yet rated

So much of I Used to Be Funny has the easy and clever repartee of such engaging character studies as the HBO dramedy Somebody Somewhere. Here amid snarky but lovable standup comics is a believable dynamic, a threesome of friends who care for each other and seem real. The characters are warm and self-deprecating, embracing their flaws and sharing them aloud. But as the traumatized Sam decides she's going to rouse herself from her understandably depressive state to find the missing Brooke—without the assistance of authorities and without a sensible assessment of the risk—it breaks the magic the movie has up to that point captured us with. When Sam explains that she seeks out Brooke's company because she "is the one person who doesn't pity me; she hates me," it doesn't ring true. Especially after Brooke had turned her love for Sam into antagonism because she never accepted the reality of her father's violent attack. It makes Sam's unrelenting quest to find Brooke seem questionable.

When Sam learns Brooke is holed up with an older drug dealer, calling for help would've been far more sensible than barging in alone. Probably the greatest flaw here is the scene marking Sam's return to the stage, without any indication of how she overcame her entrenched fears and suddenly went from a depressed person who couldn't shower or leave the house for a couple of years to the confident woman we see in the last scene.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the illness of a mom creates psychological problems for the young daughter.

  • How does a troubled teen deal with her aloof and distant father?

  • Does Sam seem foolish when she takes risks to help find someone who doesn't want to be found? Why, or why not?

Movie Details

  • On DVD or streaming : September 5, 2024
  • Cast : Rachel Sennott , Olga Petsa
  • Director : Ally Pankiw
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s) , Female Movie Writer(s)
  • Studio : Netflix
  • Genre : Drama
  • Run time : 106 minutes
  • MPAA rating : NR
  • Last updated : October 10, 2024

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