I'm in Love with a Church Girl

Movie review by
Sandie Angulo Chen, Common Sense Media
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Drug dealer's conversion story appeals to faith audiences.
  • PG
  • 2013
  • 115 minutes

Parents say

age 18+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 4 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Strong faith-based messages: God can transform a man's life; even the most notorious criminal can have a change of heart through the grace of God, and other Bible-based themes.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Vanessa is a loving, supportive Christian woman. She wants to help Miles turn his life to God and make their relationship one based on faith and trust. Miles is really trying to be a legitimate concert promoter and to leave his shady dealings in the past; he's also very loyal to his old friends.


The cops arrest suspects at gunpoint. Miles protects his friends by pulling a gun on a rival.


A few kisses and mentions of sex (in addition to a sensual Bible verse from Song of Solomon) as well as one scene in which a provocatively dressed woman flirts and snuggles up to Miles. Miles admits he slept with a woman he introduces to Vanessa.


Insults like "stupid," and "coward," plus a few "damn"s.


Miles drives a Bentley that is shown in many scenes, and there's a lingering close-up of the Lamborghini a pastor drives into the church parking lot. Vanessa drives a Sebring convertible. Apple products are also depicted.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Miles is a former drug dealer, a fact that's mentioned again and again in the movie. There's drinking or alcohol present in a few nightclub scenes, but it's all adults drinking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that I'm in Love With a Church Girl is a faith-based film about a former drug dealer who turns his life to God with the help of his Christian girlfriend. Based on the life of pastor and former California drug smuggler Galley Molina, the movie was produced not just to entertain but to evangelize, so the main message is how even a former criminal can find forgiveness, acceptance, and love through God's grace. There's no language or sex scenes (although there are a few chaste kisses and mentions of sex), but there are a few moments in a nightclub when grown-ups drink alcohol, some overt brand placements (mostly cars), and a couple of moments when criminals or cops wield guns.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byGcjohnston June 13, 2020

Too much talk about sex and sexual messages

Surprised it was 4 out of 5 stars for family friendly by “plugged in”. Very disappointing. Not family friendly from a Christian view point. Good message but... Continue reading
Adult Written byJszut December 6, 2020

Wow, what a film!

As a Christian man, I cannot recommend this film, too much provocative imagery. However, as a man, seeing Ja Rule do the things he did in in this film really st... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byhiphoph May 9, 2014

I'm in Love with a Church Girl

The film had some more iffy scenes. The main character has a bad past - drug dealing, sleeping around, fights, etc. He struggles with getting over his past in m... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written byPeriwinkle365 July 24, 2020

Good Message, Poor Delivery.

This movie had a good message about turning your life around and learning from mistakes. The way that it was delivered in terms of some bad acting, questionable... Continue reading

What's the story?

Miles Montego (Jeff "Ja Rule" Atkins) has everything a former drug kingpin turned concert promoter could imagine: a shiny black Bentley, an 8-bedroom mansion, a close crew of friends, and the attention of any attractive woman who crosses his path. One day he spots a beautiful woman at a red light and comes across her at his financial advisor Nick's (Vincent Pastore) party. Nick introduces him to Vanessa (Adrienne Bailon), a church friend of his wife's, and explains that she's very devout. Smitten, Miles flirts with Vanessa, who is interested in him -- if he's willing to start going to church with him and open his heart to faith. With the DEA, led by Agent McDaniel (Stephen Baldwin) on his case, Miles has to decide whether he's willing to let Vanessa and God change his life.

Is it any good?

Based on the life story of Galley Molina, a former Northern California cocaine dealer who converted to Christianity in prison, the movie has all the elements of a compelling "testimony." It's the tale of how a criminal turned to the Lord. As a ministry tool in evangelical churches, this movie will no doubt be successful in sparking conversation about the power of God, and how no one is too sinful to be saved. Christian audiences looking for a movie with an inspirational story about the redemptive power of believing will be pleased with the production values, the recognizable cast, and the overt religious messages.

Secular audiences, however, will not be pleased with this movie. It's overlong (two hours) and overly sentimental, with Job-like disasters befalling and testing Miles (first his mother dies, then his beloved Vanessa lands in a coma after an accident, and then the DEA rounds up and arrests his crew). The acting is fine, but the dialogue is heavy-handed in its mission to preach and is formulaic, amateurish, and unbelievable. Even if you already read the Bible and attend church regularly, this sermonizing story may not resonate as a film but more as a Sunday School lesson.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the intersection of faith and entertainment. What do you think of this movie's positive messages? What about the movie's entertainment values? Can you like one aspect and not the other?

  • Do you think this movie will only appeal to Christian audiences? Who do you think will most enjoy this movie?

  • Ja Rule is one of many rappers who've transitioned to acting. How do you think he fares?

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