In My Dreams

Movie review by
Emily Ashby, Common Sense Media
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Sweet, if unsurprising, romance is OK for older tweens.
  • NR
  • 2018
  • 94 minutes

Parents say

age 10+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 1 review

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Positive Messages

The movie celebrates the enduring qualities of true love and paints a dreamy picture of the process by which two people find each other among the masses. It's sweet, sappy, and totally implausible, and it implies that our lives are driven more by fate than by the choices we make. That said, the two main characters find strength in their connection, and that allows them to move past losses they've recently suffered and make positive changes in their lives. 

Positive Role Models & Representations

Nick and Natalie are self-sufficient professionals facing some tough life changes, but they take heart in the confidence they gain from their relationship. They're drawn to each other because of mutual respect and authentic feelings rather than mere physical attraction. 


Couples kiss, and there are a few very mild instances of innuendo, but physical contact is limited. In one scene, a woman wears a short, clingy nightgown; in another, a man is shown in boxers and removing his shirt. 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

In a few scenes, adults drink wine or other alcohol with meals. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that In My Dreams is a worry-free romantic drama about fate and true love. Though it paints an unrealistically rosy picture of finding and falling in love, it does so through two very likable young adult characters who forgo fleeting physical attractions for the chance at a deeper, more meaningful relationship. The concept of fate plays a big role in the characters' choices, and their connection is more virtual (in dreams, though; not in cyberspace) than tangible for most of the story, which illustrates the value of connections forged by communication and common ground. There are few surprises and little to stand out in this story, but it's sweet and noticeably lacking anything of concern, so it's a safe choice for older tweens.  

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byJared Galczynski June 4, 2014
Generally said, All Hallmark movies are typically magical. But still not AY MAYRA matters.
Adult Written byDoug1Roman December 13, 2019

In My Dreams

I Loved This Movie I Thought It Was Vary Entertaining A Vary Good Romantic Movie
Teen, 15 years old Written byTani50100 April 16, 2020

What's the story?

Nick (Mike Vogel) is an accomplished architect whose vision of his romantic future is a little clouded, despite his meddling mom's (JoBeth Williams) best efforts to see him settled down. Natalie (Katharine McPhee) is a struggling restaurant owner trying to put her own stamp on the business that, until recently, was her late mother's life work. Neither has much time or inclination for the dating scene, but each secretly yearns to meet that special someone. But a fateful visit to a city landmark with a little-known legendary secret turns the tables on both when it sweeps each one away on a week's worth of dreams about the other. Suddenly Nick and Natalie feel confident they're falling in love with the mysterious stranger from their dreams, but as the legend goes, if the week ends without a real-life connection, the magic will be broken and love will be lost. Can this perfect couple find each other before time passes them by?

Is it any good?

IN MY DREAMS puts an unusual twist on the traditional boy-meets-girl romance, and jumping in and out of the characters' dreams proves a little jarring to the story's flow. Just when you get into the rhythm of characters' days spent pining over their mystery someone and nights spent sharing hopes and dreams, Nick and Natalie bow out of each other's dreams to pursue other romantic interests in the real world, creating further aesthetic breaks to the plot. But eventually it gets back on track, and after several near-misses at finally finding each other, there's a happily-ever-after ending that's as sweet as it is unsurprising.

As romances go, In My Dreams is squeaky clean, with limited physical contact (a few kisses is as far as it goes) and no language or other mature content to speak of. Teens might find the premise a little hokey, but if they do choose to watch, rest assured that they'll be seeing a positive example of a relationship that moves from the "like" stage to "love" quickly, but with a lot of respect and no sexual pressures. Ultimately it's always fun to cheer for star-crossed relationships, and even more so when the two parties are as appealing as Nick and Natalie prove to be.  

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how the entertainment industry presents romantic relationships. Is the emphasis on compatibility and long-term connections, or is there an assumption of disposability instead? Why are celebrity couples so fascinating to follow? 

  • Teens: How has technology changed how we meet and get to know people? Are there benefits to our constant access? What unique challenges does social media in particular pose to relationships? 

  • Do you believe in fate? If so, what of your life experiences point to its plausibility? How large a role do you think fate might play in love? Do you believe in love at first sight? 

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