Parents' Guide to

Instant Family

By Michael Ordona, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 13+

Heartwarming family dramedy has some mature moments.

Movie PG-13 2018 119 minutes
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Based on 82 parent reviews

Bubbles n tea
Bubbles n tea Parent of 14-year-old
September 10, 2022
age 18+

Terrible! Teens shouldn’t watch things like this

A 12 year old should not know about, sex, masturbating and all those swear words, I would not let my kid see this until 18. Too much sexual content and swearing!

This title has:

Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
2 people found this helpful.
AMovieReviewer
AMovieReviewer Adult
August 29, 2021
age 12+

Heartwarming

This title has:

Great messages
Great role models
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What's the Story?

In INSTANT FAMILY, a 40-something couple named Pete and Ellie (Mark Wahlberg and Rose Byrne) decide to foster three siblings, including a smart and rebellious teenager named Lizzy (Isabela Moner). With the help of dedicated case workers (Octavia Spencer, Tig Notaro), the group navigates the extremely bumpy road toward becoming a forever family.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (82):
Kids say (115):

This dramedy offers heartfelt moments and touching details likely drawn from writer-director Sean Anders' actual experiences of fostering three siblings with his wife. This kind of story could easily veer into schmaltz, but Instant Family admirably avoids most of that. It comes off as authentically earnest, with some light touches and effective performances. Some moments are clearly exaggerated for comic effect, but generally speaking, the film feels rooted in reality (though some might say the foster care system comes off a bit too rosy). Everyday pitfalls like getting the kids to eat and dress properly throw off the couple's once-tidy existence. Much larger, more serious issues -- such as the re-emergence of the kids' birth mother -- also come up to complicate the budding family's existence.

Playing Lizzy, young Moner is impressive; she's intelligent and emotionally available. Spencer gets the lion's share of the laughs and delivers as the unfiltered half of a comic team with Notaro. Byrne and Wahlberg are, as always, appealing presences, each finding moments to shine and reveal the depth of their emotion toward the kids. Instant Family is ultimately a life-affirming testament to the strength of the families we choose.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about whether they would have shown the patience that Pete and Ellie did in Instant Family. Why do you think they stuck it out? Why do you think the kids were so poorly behaved at times? What made them stay together in the end?

  • Which characters did you most sympathize with? Which do you consider role models? How do the characters demonstrate perseverance?

  • What is the movie saying about the nature of what makes a family? What does "unconditional love" mean?

  • How does the movie handle sexting/inappropriate device use? What do the characters learn about it?

  • Do you think the film portrays foster families realistically? Is everyone in it for the right reasons?

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