Parents' Guide to Instant Family

Movie PG-13 2018 119 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Michael Ordona By Michael Ordona , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Heartwarming family dramedy has some mature moments.

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 78 parent reviews

Parents say this movie offers a blend of heartfelt moments and humor, while tackling the complexities of foster care and adoption. However, many reviews express concern over excessive profanity and adult themes, deeming it inappropriate for younger audiences and recommending adult supervision during viewing.

  • realistic themes
  • excessive language
  • appropriate for teens
  • heartwarming story
  • parental guidance recommended
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age 12+

Based on 125 kid reviews

Kids say that the movie is a funny and heartwarming tale about family, but be cautious as it contains mature themes including frequent swearing and sexual references, making it less suitable for younger children. While many found the story relatable and enjoyable, several reviews caution that it may not be appropriate for anyone under 11 or 12, emphasizing the importance of a child's maturity level in deciding whether to watch it.

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  • adult themes
  • frequent swearing
  • not for young kids
  • relatable story
  • enjoyable comedy
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What's the Story?

In INSTANT FAMILY, a 40-something couple named Pete and Ellie (Mark Wahlberg and Rose Byrne) decide to foster three siblings, including a smart and rebellious teenager named Lizzy (Isabela Moner). With the help of dedicated case workers (Octavia Spencer, Tig Notaro), the group navigates the extremely bumpy road toward becoming a forever family.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 78 ):
Kids say ( 125 ):

This dramedy offers heartfelt moments and touching details likely drawn from writer-director Sean Anders' actual experiences of fostering three siblings with his wife. This kind of story could easily veer into schmaltz, but Instant Family admirably avoids most of that. It comes off as authentically earnest, with some light touches and effective performances. Some moments are clearly exaggerated for comic effect, but generally speaking, the film feels rooted in reality (though some might say the foster care system comes off a bit too rosy). Everyday pitfalls like getting the kids to eat and dress properly throw off the couple's once-tidy existence. Much larger, more serious issues -- such as the re-emergence of the kids' birth mother -- also come up to complicate the budding family's existence.

Playing Lizzy, young Moner is impressive; she's intelligent and emotionally available. Spencer gets the lion's share of the laughs and delivers as the unfiltered half of a comic team with Notaro. Byrne and Wahlberg are, as always, appealing presences, each finding moments to shine and reveal the depth of their emotion toward the kids. Instant Family is ultimately a life-affirming testament to the strength of the families we choose.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about whether they would have shown the patience that Pete and Ellie did in Instant Family. Why do you think they stuck it out? Why do you think the kids were so poorly behaved at times? What made them stay together in the end?

  • Which characters did you most sympathize with? Which do you consider role models? How do the characters demonstrate perseverance?

  • What is the movie saying about the nature of what makes a family? What does "unconditional love" mean?

  • How does the movie handle sexting/inappropriate device use? What do the characters learn about it?

  • Do you think the film portrays foster families realistically? Is everyone in it for the right reasons?

Movie Details

  • In theaters : November 16, 2018
  • On DVD or streaming : March 5, 2019
  • Cast : Mark Wahlberg , Rose Byrne , Isabela Moner
  • Director : Sean Anders
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
  • Studio : Paramount Pictures
  • Genre : Comedy
  • Character Strengths : Perseverance
  • Run time : 119 minutes
  • MPAA rating : PG-13
  • MPAA explanation : thematic elements, sexual material, language and some drug references
  • Last updated : March 12, 2026

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