Parents' Guide to Keeping Mum

Movie R 2005 99 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

British comedy has sex, innuendo, language, some violence.

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age 17+

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age 11+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In KEEPING MUM, Grace Hawkins (Maggie Smith) -- a housekeeper with a shocking past -- moves into the home of the Goodfellow family. But all is not well in the house. Pastor Walter Goodfellow (Rowan Atkinson) has become disconnected from his family while concentrating on his calling. Meanwhile his wife, Gloria (Kristin Scott Thomas), is having an affair, his daughter, Holly (Tamsin Egerton), is exploring her sexuality, and his son, Petey (Toby Parkes), is being bullied at school. Determined to paint the perfect family picture, the housekeeper goes to extreme measures to set things right.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 1 ):
Kids say ( 2 ):

A British comedy with a stellar cast that never quite gets a grip on its tone, skimping on the dark comedy that might have better suited the subject matter in favor of labored innuendo. Where the fun really lies in Keeping Mum is with the breezy Mary Poppins-like way Smith's housekeeper character approaches the most macabre of tasks, while predictable provincial drama unfolds all around. So when the film strays into sexual innuendo -- pushed to the limit in Patrick Swayze's sleazy golf teacher -- it snaps you out of what was an enjoyable watch.

Scott Thomas gives a strong performance as the wife at her wit's (and her libido's) end, and Atkinson taps into his Four Weddings and a Funeral bumble with unexpected restraint as the clueless husband of the cloth. It's slight but charming, and fun in places, with the veteran actors just managing to keep the undisciplined screenplay on track until the grisly end.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the comedy in Keeping Mum. Did you find it funny? Discuss what is meant by the term "black comedy." How was this kind of comedy different to other comedies you may have seen?

  • Talk about the film's violence. Did the lack of gore and blood make it less shocking? Why? Does exposure to violent media desensitize kids to violence?

  • How did the movie portray sex? Was it affectionate? Respectful? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • Talk about the language and sexual innuendo used in the movie. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • Did you have any sympathies with the character of Grace? Why did she do what did?

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