Parents' Guide to Language Lessons

Movie NR 2021 91 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Touching dramedy explores virtual friendship; language.

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What's the Story?

LANGUAGE LESSONS centers on Cariño (Natalie Morales), an online Spanish teacher who's been hired by an unseen man named Will to give weekly virtual lessons to his husband, Adam (Mark Duplass), as a birthday present. The surprise lessons aren't immediately embraced, as Adam and Cariño's introductory session reveals the stark differences between their situations: He's in a huge modern house in Oakland, and she's in a modest home in Costa Rica. The following week, Cariño signs on as planned, only to get very startling news: Will has died unexpectedly, leaving Adam shocked and grieving. Cariño tries to help and distract him, and their sessions take on a much more personal tone. They make each other laugh, Adam can talk to her about his past and history with Will, and their weekly conversations start becoming a high point in Adam's life. Meanwhile, Cariño struggles with how much to share in return about her life beyond the computer screen.

Is It Any Good?

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Entertaining and poignant, this collaborative bilingual dramedy benefits from Morales and Duplass' platonic chemistry. Movies with just two characters can often be overly play-like, and they don't always work -- but when they do, it's memorable. Language Lessons is a quiet movie about how intense circumstances can create an intimate bond between people, even if they're only seeing each other through their phones and computers. The natural, semi-improvised nature of the dialogue is authentic, which is to be expected considering that the stars wrote the script together. They show an impressive amount of range for two actors working remotely through screens.

Morales' direction concentrates on the various inequalities in the dynamic between Cariño (which means "cute," "care," or "dear") and Adam. It's telling how little viewers see of her background, whereas they usually see exactly where in Adam's luxurious home he is when they talk. Their interactions, while initially superficial (a way to practice conversational Spanish), turn into something substantial -- especially for Adam -- and the overall movie highlights both actors' comedic timing and charisma. Morales has been a talent to watch since her early days on Parks and Rec, and it's good to see her growing both behind and in front of the camera. The movie's ending might seem overly tidy, but the film as a whole is still a testament to the kind of friendship that grows into familial love.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about whether Language Lessons is a drama, a comedy, or a combination. Some critics have called it a platonic romcom. Do you think that's an accurate description?

  • Do you think it's realistic that such close bonds could develop over videoconference? Have you ever had a remote or online friendship?

  • What character strengths do Adam and Cariño display in the movie? Why are those strengths important?

  • Discuss the representation in the story: Cariño is Latina, and Adam is gay. How do their identities impact their relationship? How do you feel about a straight actor playing a gay character?

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