Parents' Guide to Lolita

Movie R 1998 137 minutes
Lolita movie poster: Dominique Swain puts on lipstick while Jeremy Irons watches on

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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Mature themes, child sexual abuse in disturbing adaptation.

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What's the Story?

In LOLITA, academic Humbert Humbert (Jeremy Irons) arrives in 1947 New England to live with Charlotte Haze (Melanie Griffith) and her daughter, Dolores (Dominique Swain), while he takes on a new job. The minute he sets eyes on the 14-year-old Dolores, he becomes infatuated, and marries her mother to stay close. When Charlotte is hit by a car, he takes Dolores out of camp and on a road trip where he begins to sexually abuse the teen under the guise of a romantic relationship.

Is It Any Good?

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Three decades on from Stanley Kubrick's Oscar-nominated adaptation, director Adrian Lyne brings Vladimir Nabokov's infamous novel back to the screen with mixed results. There's no doubting the strength of the performances in this 1997 version of Lolita. Swain in particular was nominated for various newcomer awards, and easily flips between playful childishness and knowing flirtation. That she was 15—only a year older than her character—at the time of filming only adds to the feeling of unease, though. A body double was used for the more sexual scenes, but there's no getting away from the framing of her sexualized behavior as a level of consent. The entire story is from the point of view of the abuser, voice-overs and all, and Irons' woe-is-me navel-gazing attempts to elicit sympathy that will be hard for most to muster. However, the way postwar America is brought to life is visually impressive, steeped in a languid yet restless atmosphere that reflects a country no longer looking through rose-tinted glasses—its loss of innocence evident alongside the characters as it starts to see enemies a little closer to home. Long as it is, at over two hours, it's this and Swain's screen presence that save the film from losing its momentum. However, it's hard to fully root for a movie that frames abuse as tragic, forbidden romance.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the theme of sexual abuse in Lolita. How did the movie frame the abuse? Did it treat the topic responsibly? How did you think we were supposed to feel toward Humbert? Where might you turn if you or someone you know was being abused?

  • Discuss the film's violence. Did you find any scenes too intense? What's the impact of media violence on kids?

  • Talk about the strong language in the movie. Did it add anything?

  • The movie is based on a famous novel by Vladimir Nabokov, and has previously been adapted for the screen by director Stanley Kubrick. Have you read the book or seen previous adaptations? If so, how do they compare? If not, would watching this encourage you to read or watch other versions? Why, or why not?

  • The movie is set in 1940s postwar America. How did it set the scene for the time period? How did it use sets and costumes, and is there anything else that indicated the era?

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