Parents' Guide to

Love Don't Cost a Thing

By Nell Minow, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 15+

Missed opportunity full of dubious messages.

Movie PG-13 2003 101 minutes
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A Lot or a Little?

What you will—and won't—find in this movie.

Community Reviews

age 11+

Based on 7 parent reviews

age 11+

Stellar movie, some sexual references

This movie is about a teen who tries to pay a girlfriend to get him popularity. Eventually, he finds out that you have to work hard, and that life isn't as easy as fixing a car and getting a girl. Some parts are inappropriate, but this movie would be fine for kids 11 and up. You may want to talk to your tween about some of the messages they might get from the movie, but was great and fun to watch.

This title has:

Great messages
Great role models
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much consumerism
age 11+

Stellar movie, some sexual references

This movie is about a teen who tries to pay a girlfriend to get him popularity. Eventually, he finds out that you have to work hard, and that life isn't as easy as fixing a car and getting a girl. Some parts are inappropriate, but this movie would be fine for kids 11 and up. You may want to talk to your tween about some of the messages they might get from the movie, but was great and fun to watch.

This title has:

Great messages
Great role models
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much consumerism

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (7):
Kids say (4):

Love Don't Cost a Thing is awkward and unpleasant, even smarmy, and particularly offensive for a movie for this age group. This update of the 1987 hit Can't Buy Me Love has an African-American cast, but unfortunately this otherwise mediocre bit of cinematic fluff adds some painfully inappropriate plot devices that bring what little energy the movie had to a crashing halt. The only scenes that seem unforced and natural are when Alvin and Paris are on their own, and only because of Christina Milian.

Troy Beyer's awkward direction is another distraction. She shoots the big "son, no matter what, I've always been proud of you" scene lit from below as if Alvin and his father had accidentally wandered onto the set of a Spielberg movie. Even the final "love me as I am" scene when Alvin declares who he is to the applause of the crowd falls flat.

Movie Details

  • In theaters: December 12, 2003
  • On DVD or streaming: April 27, 2004
  • Cast: Christina Milian, Kenan Thompson, Nick Cannon
  • Director: Troy Beyer
  • Inclusion Information: Black directors, Black actors, Latinx actors
  • Studio: Warner Bros.
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Run time: 101 minutes
  • MPAA rating: PG-13
  • MPAA explanation: sexual content/humor
  • Last updated: January 2, 2023

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