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Some mature themes and language in feel-good romcom.
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Love Hard
What's the Story?
Nathalie (Nina Dobrev) is an LA-based writer whose career is built on a column about her dating disasters in LOVE HARD. One day she finally makes a connection on a dating app with a man who is not only drop-dead gorgeous, he's also funny, sweet, and smart. The only problem is he lives thousands of miles away in New York. The two spend hours getting to know each other by phone, and when he jokingly suggests she come visit him in New York, she actually takes him up on it as a surprise. Problem is, when she arrives, all is not as it seems, beginning with her new friend's identity.
Is It Any Good?
What starts out feeling like a rehash of a dozen romcoms you've seen before turns out to be a film that slowly, albeit unevenly, constructs its own charm. Love Hard is a feel-good, Christmas-set romantic comedy with a couple of twists, including Asian American main characters and a plot involving catfishing via dating apps. The main character, Natalie, writes a "disaster date" column. She suggests half of people like reading about disaster dates and the other half prefer storybook romances. This film tries to combine the two. Do you know how it's going to end before it starts? Pretty much. But like any good date, getting there should be the fun part.
There are some funny scenes as well as some laughable one-liners, like an L.A. "6" equaling a small-town, East-Coast "10," a grandma confusing "G word" for "geisha" rather than "girlfriend," or a crack about someone throwing around cool terms sounding like she has "Millennial Tourette's." The fact that they're not politically correct is what gives these jokes their playful punch. Another, more woke riff involves a reworking of "Baby, It's Cold Outside," which one character calls the "sexual assault theme song," to make it less "rape-y." It's neither the romance nor the comedy that carries this film, though (and the fact that it's set during Christmas feels more like a marketing decision than a plot necessity). The sweetness of the characters and the background of Josh's quirky but loving family ultimately make Love Hard a likable watch.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the concept of "catfishing" in Love Hard. Have you heard of this term? In what context? What does it involve?
What are some of the upsides and downsides to online dating apps?
What other film references stood out to you in this movie?
How does this compare to other holiday romcoms that you've seen? Why are so many romantic comedies set during the holidays?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : November 5, 2021
- Cast : Nina Dobrev , Jimmy O. Yang , Darren Barnet
- Director : Hernan Jimenez
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s) , Asian Movie Actor(s) , Multiracial Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Netflix
- Genre : Romance
- Topics : Friendship , Holidays ( Christmas )
- Run time : 104 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : December 4, 2025
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