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Love Is Love Is Love
By Tara McNamara,
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Talky tales about enduring love unlikely to engage teens.

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What's the Story?
Through three separate stories, LOVE IS LOVE IS LOVE offers a glimpse of what love looks like over the decades. Joanne (Joanne Whalley) and Jack (Chris Messina) are a married couple working miles apart but finding a creative way to share a romantic dinner. Retirees Diana (Kathy Baker) and John (Marshall Bell) try to reconnect when they realize they no longer share the same interests. And friends travel from all over the world to attend Claire's wake, sharing stories of what she meant to them and giving comfort to her adult daughter (Maya Kazan).
Is It Any Good?
Writers are advised to write what they know, and Eleanor Coppola does seem to give viewers a glimpse of her own life by telling stories of older, wealthy White women. Joanne's husband is away for months at a time as a filmmaker, making it challenging to keep their spark alive. Diana is happy with her life of tennis, gardening, and book clubs, but now that her husband is retired, he wants to spend quality time with her (ugh?). And after the unseen Claire passes, her successful daughter, Caroline (Kazan), learns that her mom was actually super cool and regrets she hadn't seen her more frequently. The friends who praise Claire's thoughtfulness, support, and other fantastic qualities ("We had great talks about race!" says the movie's lone Black character) are a Who's Who of actresses in their 60s, including Cybill Shepherd, Rita Wilson, and Rosanna Arquette.
It's hard not to think that many of the moments, fantasies, and familiar faces in Love Is Love Is Love aren't borrowed from Coppola's own life. On the one hand, that helps give it authenticity. But on the other, Coppola's privileged life is pretty out of touch with that of almost everyone else -- which ultimately makes these stories pretty boring. Films often aim to show the most important event in a character's life -- or a moment that allows for significant personal growth. In this case, we see just a glimpse, and those glimpses leave the characters' stories unresolved. That said, while the stories are a dud, the rest of the filmmaking is good. The cinematography is rich, warm, and well lit; the editing is excellent; the production design is spot-on; and the actors deliver (Baker, in particular, brings crackle to dull dialogue). And one wonderful result of having an 85-year-old woman director in charge is that the film is eager to showcase the genuine beauty of its stars. Bottom line? Adults might get something out of these snippets of long-lasting relationships, but few are going to love it, and teens aren't likely to care.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about long-lasting relationships. What do you think helps them endure? What challenges do they present? How does Love Is Love Is Love depict this type of relationship?
How are the movie's three stories connected? Do you enjoy the technique of joining three short films into one feature film?
How do the characters get what they need (or at least get what they say they want) through effective communication? Why is that an important life skill?
How do Claire's friends express gratitude for her support, presence, and friendship? How can we appreciate our friends while they're still a regular presence in our lives?
What audience do you think this film is intended to appeal to? How can you tell? Do you think more variation in the types of characters it presents could have changed the audience it appeals to?
Movie Details
- In theaters: November 12, 2021
- On DVD or streaming: February 22, 2022
- Cast: Kathy Baker , Joanne Whalley , Chris Messina
- Director: Eleanor Coppola
- Inclusion Information: Female actors
- Studio: Blue Fox Entertainment
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Friendship
- Run time: 91 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: June 2, 2023
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