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Love the Coopers

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All-star holiday comedy is too uneven to be memorable.
  • Review Date: November 13, 2015
  • Rated: PG-13
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Release Year: 2015
  • Running Time: 106 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

Clear messages about the importance of strong family relationships and valuing honesty and communication. But themes include divorce, adultery, marriage, unemployment, abandonment, and loss -- as well as dementia, kleptomania, and loneliness.

Positive role models

Bucky encourages Ruby to see what a wonderful woman she is and helps Hank realize that he needs to move past his insecurities and want his ex-wife to be happy.

Violence

An elderly man looks dead, but he just needs to be hospitalized.

Sex

An older married couple reminisces about their first time; a younger couple kisses a few times. Adults discuss adultery and being the "other woman."

Language

One of each of the following: "bulls--t," "s--t," "goddamn," "damn it," "Christ" (as an exclamation), "p---y," "stupid," "loser."

Consumerism

TGI Friday's, McDonald's, iPhone.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Adults spend a lot of time drinking at a bar, and then an entire family has champagne and wine at dinner. The elder Coopers recall their pot smoking.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Love the Coopers is an ensemble holiday dramedy about three generations of a Pittsburgh family who gather for Christmas (the cast includes (Alan Arkin, John Goodman, Ed Helms, Olivia Wilde, Diane Keaton, and many more). Heavily narrated and featuring nearly a dozen characters (including the family dog), the movie deals with some mature themes, including divorce, adultery, marriage, unemployment, abandonment, and loss -- in addition to adolescence, dementia, kleptomania, and loneliness. While there are some silly gags and several scatological jokes about poop, body odor, etc., most of the movie is focused on adult relationship issues that likely won't appeal to teens. Adults also drink casually and discuss their sexual history. There's occasional strong language (including "s--t" and "p---y") and some passionate kissing, including teens who kiss in a silly but graphic way (tongues out).

What's the story?

LOVE THE COOPERS is the story of the titular Cooper clan. Charlotte (Diane Keaton) and Sam (John Goodman) are hosting their family Christmas in Pittsburgh, even though their marriage is coming to an end. Their children -- unemployed, divorced dad of three Hank (Ed Helms) and single playwright Eleanor (Olivia Wilde) -- are both dealing with personal and professional crises, as is Charlotte's younger sister, Emma (Marisa Tomei), who has been arrested for shoplifting, and grandpa Bucky (Alan Arkin), who's mourning the thought of his best friend, young diner waitress Ruby (Amanda Seyfried), moving out of town.

Is it any good?

QUALITY

This entry in the "dysfunctional family reunion" subgenre is surprisingly unfunny and -- with the exception of a few sweet moments -- a waste of the ensemble cast's considerable talents. The entire film looks so dark and grim that audiences may wonder whether they're watching it through a washed-out filter. It's that unsettling. And most of the characters' ages don't make any sense. Keaton and Tomei have a 20-year age difference but play sisters (not impossible, but unlikely!), and Arkin is only a decade older than Keaton. He'd be more believable as Keaton's husband than her dad. On top of the obvious age discrepancies, the movie suffers from a predictable, plodding script and remarkably unlikable characters. 

Wilde gets a lot of screen time as Eleanor, a writer who's sick of Charlotte wondering when she's going to settle down. At the airport bar, Eleanor meets a handsome soldier (Jake Lacey) with whom she shares an instant attraction. They end up pretending they're together so Eleanor can get through the night with her parents. There are many other subplots, including a vaguely romantic connection between Ruby and Bucky, who goes to the diner daily just to talk to her, and a strange police-car dialogue between Emma and the cop who arrests her (Anthony Mackie). But it never adds up to anything meaningful. It's a shame that a movie with so many memorable actors could fall so flat.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the popularity of holiday movies. How does Love the Coopers compare to other holiday films about families? Why do you think holiday movies about families tend to feature so many mix-ups and feuds?

  • How do the many family members deal with their assorted problems? Which relationships seem healthy? Which seem unhealthy?

  • Would you have been interested in seeing this movie if the cast had included lesser-known actors?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:November 13, 2015
DVD release date:February 9, 2016
Cast:Alan Arkin, John Goodman, Diane Keaton
Director:Jessie Nelson
Studio:CBS Films
Genre:Comedy
Topics:Holidays
Run time:106 minutes
MPAA rating:PG-13
MPAA explanation:thematic elements, language and some sexuality

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Teen, 16 years old Written byJflores14 November 14, 2015

Sweet comedy about love, loss, and family

This Christmas movie is at time cheesy, but is overall very sweet and memorable(despite what common sense media says). I would recommend this to anyone who loves a good laugh. CONTENT: Violence- none Sex- references to orgasms in a Christmas song, one couple French kisses and touch tongues on multiple occasions, one character says he is only gay in bed, some sexual innuendo, some humorous making out Language- some uses of bullshit, crap, damn, and hell are all used. 3 uses of dick are used by a little girl. MY RATING: PG-13/ for some thematic material, some sexual content, language, and crude material
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Educator and Parent of a 10 year old Written bylongr2009 November 17, 2015

Predictable Holliday story laced with unused talent.

I took my parents to see this movie and they loved it while my boyfriend and I thought it was just ok. The movie was predictable and laced with fresh talent to work with; the film failed to wow, but it was cute. Best for the age 14+ crowd.
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Too much sex
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Too much consumerism
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Teen, 17 years old Written byironkid21 February 10, 2016

The multigenerational family of the Coopers all come together to celebrate Christmas

What's immensely disappointing about Love the Coopers is that when once I first meet up with all of these skewed, integrated storylines, I was really enjoying them and really interested where they were and where they were going. Unfortunately, the more time I was spending with the Coopers, the more I started to become bummed. Most of them just weren't very 3-dimensional (mostly referring to Keaton and Goodman's Charlotte and Sam). It's brought about that they're marriage is on the rocks but it nearly doesn't give any evidence or flashbacks despite doing so with Helms's Hank, Tomei's Emma, and Wilde's Elanor, even at one point a janitor at a mall. And it does a great job doing so with those characters but when we're talking about the two main characters who debatably are driving the plot, we need some flashbacks about them. That could've just been one flaw but unfortunately when the stories come together, it manages somehow to become even more forced. Please note that this is usually one of my favorite types of movies (heartwarming family comedy) but this was just way too forced and not 3-dimensional. Not to mention a twist that would've been really adorable but literally makes no sense and wasn't in keeping with the movie whatsoever. But Love the Coopers is not without it's bright spots. At the beginning it was really fun, and the way it wrapped up really did bring joy to me and there's so many heartwarming lines ("you can't schedule happiness", "the past, present, and future all came together") that make me wish I liked the movie much more. And my personal favorite part of the movie was the couple who kept making out (Timothee Chamalet's Charlie and I forgot the girl's name)! I really wish that those two characters was the movie's central focus.

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