Luckiest Girl Alive

Luckiest Girl Alive
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The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that the drama Luckiest Girl Alive, based on the book by Jessica Knoll, has graphic depictions of sexual and school violence. The main character, Ani (Mila Kunis), was the victim of both a gang rape and a deadly school shooting, both of which are shown in explicit detail. Violence includes explosions, shootings, and stabbings in a school setting as well as flashbacks to aspects of this event and discussion of extreme bullying behavior, including one teen relieving his bowels on another. Teens drink until passing out, smoke marijuana, kiss, and grope. A gang rape is seen in explicit and violent detail (no body parts are shown). An engaged couple kiss and initiate sex. The main character is a sex writer at a women's magazine; she writes stories involving topics like oral sex, orgasms, and the clitoris. There's mention in the film of breast reductions, touching a "c--k," having a "d--k" "rode hard," sexual deviation, phallic symbols, and pubic hair. Other language includes "f--k," variations on "s--t," and "ass," "goddamn," "bitch," "bastard," "d--k," "hell," "pr--k," "slut," and more.
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What's the Story?
LUCKIEST GIRL ALIVE lead character Ani FaNelli (Mila Kunis) appears to have a perfect life: A respected writer at a New York City-based women's magazine, she's about to wed a handsome and wealthy man (Finn Wittrock). But Ani is also very angry, and she seems to have flashbacks to violent events in her past. When a documentary filmmaker (Dalmar Abuzeid) approaches her to give an interview about her role in a school shooting incident that happened when she was a teenager (Chiara Aurelia), Ani is forced to confront the traumatic events of her teen years and how her role is portrayed by classmates like politician Dean Barton (Alex Barone). With the support of her editor (Jennifer Beals), Ani embarks on a reckoning with the past.
Is It Any Good?
This emotionally taxing film is likely to spark debate about the portrayal of both sexual and school violence and its repercussions, and Kunis' compelling lead performance drives that portrayal. Kunis plays the main character of Luckiest Girl Alive, who calls herself a "victim" rather than a "survivor," as full of barely contained rage. This comes out in scenes where she loses control of her anger as well as through a viciously cynical voice-over. Her inner monologue is full of self-shaming and name-calling, making her a character who is difficult to like until you come to understand what has made her this way (even then, she's not exactly likable, just more understandable). Kunis was a good choice -- she transforms here into a sharp-edged, intelligent ball of nerves -- and Chiara Aurelia captures the same energy as her teen self. But some of her cynicism comes across as excessive, like when she stuffs pizza into her mouth out of sight of her boyfriend after admitting she hasn't eaten lunch in six years.
The idea is that hers is a carefully curated and performative life that obfuscates severe trauma bubbling under the surface. Her divided identities are depicted in a scene from the film where she's prepping for a TV interview and her image is reflected back at her in a diversity of different mirrors. The tale is initially set up as a mystery, with hints that Kunis' Ani has committed violent acts herself in the past. Once it comes to light that as a high schooler she suffered both sexual violence and a deadly school shooting, the film begins weaving back and forth between her present and her tormented past, building up to a breakdown and a breakthrough. It's hard not to find parallels between this story and real events, like the accusations against Supreme Court Justice Brett Kavanaugh during his Senate confirmation, #MeToo revelations and calls for justice, and real school shootings (so often perpetrated by young men) like Columbine. That's a lot to pack into one movie, perhaps undermining some of the intentions here (evident in Netflix's wannatalkaboutit initiative and a heavy-handed "everywoman" end scene).
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Ani's decisions as a teenager and as an adult in Luckiest Girl Alive. Did you agree with all of the choices she makes? Why, or why not?
Why is Ani so angry, and does her anger seem to resolve at the end -- or not?
Do you think the graphic depiction of violence in this film was necessary to tell its story? Why, or why not?
This film references a website launched by Netflix to address serious topics raised in some of its films and series and to offer information and resources. Do you think it's the role or responsibility of a film distributor such as a streaming platform to provide this information? Why, or why not?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: October 7, 2022
- Cast: Mila Kunis, Chiara Aurelia, Finn Wittrock
- Director: Mike Barker
- Studio: Netflix
- Genre: Drama
- Topics: Book Characters, High School
- Run time: 115 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: violent content, rape, sexual material, language throughout and teen substance use
- Last updated: December 1, 2022
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