Common Sense Media Review
By S. Jhoanna Robledo
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based on child development research. How do we rate?
Offbeat romantic dramedy has some swearing, sex.
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Lucky Them
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What's the Story?
Ellie (Toni Collette) is writer for Stax magazine, a renowned music publication that's now barely hanging on to its supremacy. Her editor (Oliver Platt) tells her that it's time to shake things up and turn in a fine piece of writing that will showcase her true talent. (It's either that or risk being fired.) So he assigns her a story: Figure out what happened to her ex-boyfriend Matthew, a musician who disappeared at the height of his fame 10 years earlier. With the help of an eccentric documentary filmmaker (Thomas Haden Church) with whom she shares a past, Ellie just may find out what really happened.
Is It Any Good?
In some ways, LUCKY THEM is disappointing. With a lead like Colette and a supporting cast that includes Church and Platt, you expect magic. But what you get instead is a fairly good movie hobbled unfairly by a plot whose end point you can guess halfway through the movie.
But in other ways, Lucky Them is smart and knowing and interesting. Colette deserves praise for this. She anchors Ellie with a weary aimlessness that's quite accessible. We've all been there before, toeing the line between completely destroying your life and living it, if not successfully, at least with commitment. And when she finds her resolution -- and it's wholly hers, even if it may not be what all viewers might wish for her -- it's gratifyingly hard-won.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how Lucky Them deals with the topic of suicide. Does it address it seriously?
What do you think about the movie's ending? How is it different, or similar to, other quasi-romantic comedies? Is Ellie portrayed as a damsel in distress?
Talk about Ellie and the way she copes, or doesn't. What's her biggest enemy? Does she get in her own way? How does the movie show this?
Movie Details
- In theaters : May 30, 2014
- On DVD or streaming : September 30, 2014
- Cast : Toni Collette , Thomas Haden Church , Oliver Platt
- Director : Megan Griffiths
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : IFC Entertainment
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : Arts ( Concert , Music and Sing-Along ) , Family Stories ( Dads ) , Friendship , Travel
- Run time : 96 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : language, some sexual content and drug use
- Last updated : September 4, 2025
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