Parents' Guide to Lullaby

Movie R 2014 117 minutes
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S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Family reunites for dying dad in warm drama; some swearing.

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What's the Story?

Jonathan (Garrett Hedlund), who's returning to New York to visit his dying father, is taken aback when he learns that Dad (Richard Jenkins) has requested to be removed from life-support machines the next morning. It's a decision that sends everyone reeling, prompting them to examine their relationships with the family's patriarch and one another. And it allows one last day for Robert, his sister, and their mother to hash out plenty of old family conflicts and say their goodbyes.

Is It Any Good?

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It may, in fact, be impossible for Richard Jenkins to play a false note; he is superb here. The immensely talented and often underrated actor plays a dying father who adores his family but has also managed to alienate them many times over. He's a cauldron of pride, pathos, and disappointment as he reflects on what he has achieved, all while remaining relatable, too.

But the story actually centers on Jonathan, not his dad, and Hedlund unfortunately pales in comparison to Jenkins. While Jonathan is supposed to come to terms with his family, Hedlund seems stiff (some of which can be attributed to the character, but not all) -- he's good with the anger and frustration but not the thoughtful reckoning. Still, the film's message is potent: Families are messy and lovely, and farewells to them are even more so.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what Lullaby is saying about families. What's the main takeaway? Are the characters and their interactions realistic/believable? What would a movie about your family be like?

  • How is Robert's situation differ from that of Meredith, another terminally ill patient? How do they both face the fact that they're dying?

  • What do you think about Robert's decision to be taken off of life support? Is his family supportive? Do they eventually change their mind?

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